For some of my previous posts, I have come to be known as a true delicate and emotional guy, full of negative thoughts, among my close friend(s). Just for that sake, I am coming up with this current post.
OK. So, when do the clouds of any negative thoughts hover upon us? When does a person feel totally detached from life? When does there comes a point in life when the person finds no particular reason to live? What causes a person to commit suicide? Why does a person believe that nothing in the world belongs to him or her? Why it gets so difficult to just pass the time? Why does life seems as just GOING ON?
Enough. I believe there is a single answer to all of the above questions. But what it actually is, is actually very hard to find.
You know that something is missing for sure, but are still unaware of that Something, what is it?
I guess it to be one's own confidence level towards life. Yes, it makes sense. Just a simple concept but yet so difficult.
Sometimes, some such kind of things happen that just kill your self confidence. These can be related to anything- your family, surrounding environment, you yourself, your colleagues, working atmosphere, colour of your bed sheet or maybe the clothes that you wear.
This is what I could collect upon thinking a lot. I may even be wrong but I know that you are always there to correct me up.
I would like to mention a good Sidhuism over here:
"Aadarsh purush wahi hota hai jo khud ko paristhitiyon ke anusar dhaal le ya phir paristhitiyon ko hi apne anukool bana le".
That's all what is in my hands, i.e. to improve. Now, lets see how much my surroundings favour me.
Mind it-- the person never changes his personality at will but definitely develops upon it once he or she comes to know about the shortcomings. The whole credit goes to the one pointing the mistakes.
Moreover, that person is the best one who can be the most useful in building the confidence and hence improving upon yourself. Benefit from him or her before its too late.
One more thing, positivity comes as a bye product of your self-confidence. Nothing so exceptional about it.
"How can you expect a treat from a dying fellow?"
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Thanks for taking your precious time out !!