Khoobsurat Kaun Hai ?

Khoobsurat hain woh lub
Jo pyari batein kartey hain

Khoobsurat hai woh muskurahat
Jo doosron ke chehron per bhi muskan saja de

Khoobsurat hai woh dil
Jo kisi ke dard ko samjhey
Jo kisi ke dard mein tadpey

Khoobsurat hain woh jazbat
Jo kisi ka ehsaas karein

Khoobsurat hain woh ehsaas
Jo kisi ke dard ke me dawa baney

Khoobsurat hain woh batein
Jo kisi ka dil na dukhaein

Khoobsurat hain woh ankhein
Jin mein pakezgi ho sharm o haya ho

Khoobsurat hain woh ansoo
Jo kisi ke dard ko mehsoos kerke beh jae

Khoobsurat hain woh Hath
Jo kisi ko mushkil waqat mein tham lein

Khoobsurat hain woh kadam
Jo kisi ki madad ke liye aagey badhein !!!!!

Khoobsurat hai woh soch
Jo kisi ke liye acha sochey

Khoobsurat hai woh insan
Jise KHUDA ne ye KHOOBSURATI ada ki hai.

Think before you.........

Today before you think of saying an unkind word
Think of someone who can't speak

Before you complain about the taste of your food
Think of someone who has nothing to eat

Before you complain about your husband or wife
Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion

Today before you complain about life
Think of someone who went too early to heaven

Before you complain about your children
Think of someone who desires children but they're barren

Before you argue about your dirty house; someone didn't clean or sweep
Think of the people who are living in the streets

Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet

And when you are tired and complain about your job
Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another
Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down
Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around

Life is a gift
Live it...
Enjoy it...
Celebrate it...
And fulfill it.
And while you are at it give love to someone today
Love someone with what you do and the words you say
Love is not meant to be kept locked inside of us and hidden
So give it away "Give Love to someone today!"

Sacrifice by the Sikh Gurus for the sake of a Religion known as Humanity

When after Shahjahan fundamentalist Aurangzeb occupied the throne of Delhi he tore to shreds the well debated and so called secular policies of his predecessor Mughal rulers. He, while rejecting all the double-edged policies of the Mughal emperors, took his sword out of the shield to implement God's dictate for converting India into an Islamic state. The entire country was shocked and shudered because of his atrocities. First of all he made Hindu scholars and the Pandit community as his target. He believed that it is because of their preaching and teaching that the entire population of India had not become Muslims despite continuous pressure for many years. He thought that it was necessary to eliminate the Brahmin community for the elimination of that society.
Kashmiri Pandits approach Guru Teg Bahadur Ji for help:
After getting frustrated by the inhuman cruelties committed by Aurangzeb, Kashmiri Pandits decided to approach the great nationalist, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur, at Anandpur Sahib in Punjab for help, about 500 Pandits, under the leadership of Pandit Kripa Ram, met the Guru.
Shri Guru Teg Bahadur became engrossed in deep thought after listening to the story of the Pandits. His face lit bright like the Sun. The Kshatriya in Him awakened for the protection of religion and nation. His son, Gobind Rai(Shri Guru Gobind Singh Ji), enquired from him the reason of his trance.

The Guru told his inquisitive son that there is need for the sacrifice of a greatman for protecting the Hindu society from the misfortune. The son of the Guru, who was dedicated to the nation and religion, had the same blood in his veins.
He said instantly "Who else is more great than you ?"

With these words of his son, Gobind, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur decided to sacrifice himself for the protection of the sacred thread and vermillion (Tilak). This decision was of national importance, because it changed the course of future history.
Shri Guru Teg Bahadur sent a message to Aurangzeb that if he could convert Teg Bahadur to Islam, every Hindu will become a Muslim.There was a discussion between Aurangzeb and the Guru. The Guru roared like a lion and told the king that he could not change his religion. Forcing anyone to change religion was against humanity. The Mughal ruler is irreligious by following an irreligious path. Honouring his dictates and orders is a deep dishonour for the entire country of India and for the vast Hindu society. He told him that he opposed, strongly, clearly and with determination these evil deeds.Aurangzeb felt losing ground under his feet on seeing the courage and strong religious faith of Guru Teg Bahadur.

Aurangzeb flared up and gave two options to the Guru - either death or adoption of Islam.

Great love for Hindu religion:
The Guru opted for the option of death for sacrificing his life for the protection of nation and religion. And for this very purpose he had come from Anandpur Sahib to Delhi.
Teg Bahadur said:

"We belong to Hindu religion. How can we give up our highly dear Hindu religion ? This Hindu religion is a source of happiness in this and the other world. No other religion seems to be equal to Hindu religion. Those having mean and unwise bent of mind and give up this religion are wicked and base. Such people suffer greatly in this world and even Yamraj (God of Death) does not get satisfied while punishing them. We are wise and learned. Why should we forsake Hindu religion ? We have a permanent commitment and love for protecting our religion".

This gave birth to a period of cruelty on Guru Teg Bahadur and his colleagues. Tieing to a hot pillar, throwing hot sand on their bodies, wounding their bodies and other intolerable pains became a routine. And whenever anyone was not made unstable, orders were issued to kill them mercilessly.
As per the Fatwah (decree) of the royal Qazi the Gurus first associate, Bhai Dayal, was thrown in a boiling pot and killed.The second associate Bhai Sati Das, was packed in a bale of cotton which was set ablaze and the third one, Bhai Mati Das, was sawed to death.
After the immortal sacrifice of these three persons, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur was beheaded at the Chandni Chowk in Delhi.Thus Guruji sacrificed his life for the protection of Hindu religion. Can anybody lay down his life and that too for the protection of another religion? This is the reason he is still remembered as "Hind Di Chaddar", shield of India. For the sake of whom he had sacrificed his life, none of the them came forward to lift his body, fearing that they would also be assassinated.

Ideas To Be Successful

Set specific goals and action steps, and write them down.  The single most important step in getting somewhere is knowing where you're going and having a plan for getting there.  Your goals have to be written out, and so does your plan.  Be specific, date each goal and each step on your action plan.  Then follow it.

Read and review your goals daily.  This one could change your life.  Keep your goals in front of you.  Always know what you plan to do next.  And always take the action your plan calls for.  Review your goals, review your plan, change them as necessary, and stay with it.  It only takes two or three minutes each morning to read your goals and glance over your plans.  You're going to spend the next 24 hours that day doing something; you might as well be doing something that counts.

Set daily priorities.  Your goals and action plan will tell you what to do.  Next, put your priorities in order.  If you make a list, keep it short.

Change your old programs by learning new Self-Talk.  Get rid of any old mental programs that could be holding you back.  Listen to Self-Talk, practice it, and get it right.  Your programs will determine whether you reach your goal or not.

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Turn off the television.  The less television you watch, the more successful you will be.  Most television wastes your time, while it programs your mind with the wrong input to be successful.  Do your future and your family a favour.  As much as you can, break the habit, spend your time doing something of value, and turn the television OFF.

Practice, every day, keeping a positive attitude.  Your attitude actually affects the biochemistry of your brain.  A bad attitude turns your success switches "off."  A good attitude turns them "on."  Never listen to the negative opinions of others, and make the choice to eliminate negativity from your life--completely.  A good attitude is not an accident; it is a habit and a skill that you have to build for yourself. Practice going through life with your success switches being turned "on."

Associate with people who are more successful than you are.  We become most like the people we spend our time with most.  Seek out the successful people; people of quality, honour, integrity, and achievement.  Spend time with them in person.  Listen to them on tape.  Or read their stories in books.  We get the most from the people who have the most to give.

Live your life based on "values."  Your values are the pages on which the story of your life will be written.  Practice the values of honesty, integrity, trust, determination, compassion, patience, personal responsibility, the willingness to work, and the courage to endure.  All lasting success is built on positive values.

Practice your faith.  In the lives of people who are truly successful in every way, you will always find a foundation of faith.  If you want to live your life at your best, practice your faith.  Not just an hour a week, but every day.

Make the choice to believe in yourself and in your future.  Believing in yourself is a choice.  The people who are the most successful learn to tell themselves they can do it.  Practice believing in yourself.  Practice telling yourself you can do it; no matter how difficult, no matter what it takes.  You've got what it takes.  You can do it!  You are capable of more than you have ever imagined!  Now tell yourself that.

Do at least two things each day to improve yourself.  This is one of the top ideas on every achiever's list of how to be successful.  If you want to get more successful, you have to learn more.  Each day, think of two simple things you can do to improve yourself that day.  Set some goals about this one.  Take small steps.  Read something.  Listen to something new.  Learn something.  If you want your life to get better, you have to start by improving yourself, first.

Never quit.  Never Stop.  Never give up!  If you want to be successful at anything, be determined, persevere, stay with it, refuse to give in, don't hesitate, don't hold back, and don't quit until the job is done.  If it hasn't worked yet, try harder.  If you haven't reached your goal, focus your sights, visualize the outcome, recommit to making it, start again, take action, stay with it, and never, ever, give up!