Vikram Jeet Singh, Shimla

Us Se Kehna

2009-08-10T22:56:00.000+05:30

Bikhar rahi hai meri zaat Use kehna,
Kabhi mile, to yahi baat Use kehna.

Wo sath tha, to Zamana tha humsafar mera,
Magar ab koi nahi mere saath, Use kehna.

Use kehna, ke bin Uske din nahi katta mera,
Sisak-Sisak ke katti hai meri raat, Use kehna.

Use pukarun, ke khud hi pahunch jaun Uske paas,
Nahi rahey wo halaat, Use Kehna.

Har jeet, Uske naam, kar raha hun main,
Main maanta hun apni haar, par kahin wo ise apni jeet na samajhle,

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Usey kehna :((

Ik kudi, Jida Naa.........

2009-05-13T17:06:00.003+05:30

Here is the English version of the famous poem/song "Ik kudi jida naa Mohabbat" by Shiv Kumar Batalvi for my special readers who won't be much familiar with the Punjabi world.
Hope you like it & please follow the meaning:

A girl whose name is Love
Is lost.
Simple, beautiful,
She is lost.

Her beauty, ethereal
Virtuous, like Mary,
Her laughter, blossoms falling,
Her gait, a poem.
Tall as a cypress,
Barely alight,
Yet she undertands the language of a glance.
It has been ages since she was lost
Yet it feels like yesterday,
It feels like today.
It feels like now.

She was standing beside me just now,
She is beside me no more.
What deception is this? What trickery?
I am bewildered.
My eyes examine every passerby,
Scanning their faces,
Searching for that girl.

When evening descends upon the bazaar
And perfumes erupt at every corner,
When restlessness and tiredness
Collide with leisure,
Isolated in that noise,
Her absence eats at me.
I see her
Every moment I feel as though –
Every day I feel as though –
From this throng of people,
From this crowd of odors,
She will call out to me,
I will recognize her,
She will recognize me.
But from this flood of noise
Nobody calls out to me,
Nobody looks toward me.

But, I don’t know why I feel
Indistinctly, obscurely,
Every day, through every crowd,
As though her form moves past me
But I am not able to see her.
I am lost in her face
And stay lost in it
I keep dissolving in this grief.
I keep melting in this grief.

I beg this girl, for my sake,
I beg her for her own sake,
I beg her for everyones sake
I beg her for the sake of this world,
I beg her for the sake of God,
If somewhere she reads or hears this
Whether she be alive or dying
That she come and meet me once
That she not stain my love.
Else I will not be able to live,
I will not be able to write a song.

A girl whose name is Love
Is lost.
Simple, beautiful,
She is lost.

Tribute to a Legend - Shiv Kumar Batalvi

2009-05-07T16:52:00.001+05:30

Shiv Kumar was a born (romantic) poet who migrated from the poetic region of Sialkot to Batala at the most miserable moment of the human history-1947.The pangs of separation are recurrent themes of this great lyricist of the land. He has been hailed as one of the great poets of all times.

Shiv Kumar was born on July 23, 1936 in Bara Pind Lohtian (Shakargarh tehsil), in Punjab (now Pakistan){quite near to the Ranjha's pind, as well as mine}.
As a child Shiv is said to have been fascinated by birds and rugged, thorny plants on the Punjabi landscape.

Shiv passed his matriculate exams in 1953, from Punjab University. He went on to enrol in the F.Sc. programme at Baring Union Christian College in Batala. Before completing his degree he moved to S.N. College, Qadian into their Arts program. It is here that he began to sing ghazals and songs for his classmates. Shiv never gave the final exams he needed to pass to receive his degree.

Around this period, he met a girl named Maina at a fair in Baijnath. When he went back to look for her in her hometown, he heard the news of her death and wrote his elegy "Maina". Perhaps the most celebrated episode is his fascination for a daughter who left for the US and married someone else. When he heard of the birth of her first child, Shiv wrote "Main ek shikra yaar banaya", perhaps his most famous love poem.

By 1968 he had moved to Chandigarh, but both Batala and Chandigarh became soulless in his eyes. There were complaints about his drinking and some suggestions that his friends had him drink so he would exhibit his outrageous self. Shiv Kumar died in the 36th year of his life on May 7, 1973 in his father-in-law's house at Kir Mangyal near Pathankot.

Lets have a look at the most touching of his works I found today:

Ik kudi, jida naa Mohabbat
Gumm hai !
Saad muraadi, Sohni phabat
Gumm hai, gumm hai,
Soorat usdi, pariyaa vargi,
Seerat di oh mariyam lagdi,
Hasdi hai taan, phul ne jhad de,
Turdi hai taan, gazal hai lagdi.

Lamm-salammi, saru kad di,
Umar aje hai marke ahg di,
Par naina di, gal samajhdi.

Gummiyaa janam, janam han hoye,
Par lagdi jyun, kal di gal hai,
Iyon lagdi, jyun aj di gal hai,
IyoN lagdi, jyun hun di gal hai.

Hune taan mere, kol khadi si,
Hune taan mere, kol nahi hai,
Eh kee chaal hai? Eh kee bhatkan?
Soch meri, hairaan badi hai,
Us kudi nu, tol rahi hai.
Nazar meri, har aunde-jaande,
Chehre da rang, phol rahi hai,
Us kudi nu, tol rahi hai.

Saanjh dhale, baazaaran de jad,
Modaan te khushbu ugdi hai,
Vihal, thakaavat, bechaini jad,
Chau-raaheyaan te aa judi hai,
Raule lappe, tanhaayi vich,
Us kudi di, thur khaandi hai,
Us kudi di, thur disdi hai.

Har chin mainu iyon lagda hai,
Har din mainu, iyon lagda hai.
Jude jashan di bheedaan vichon,
Jude mehak di jhurmat vichon,
Oh mainu, awaaz devegi,
Main ohnu pehchaan lavaanga,
Uh mainu pehchaan levegi,
Par, is raule de har vichon,
Koi mainu, awaaz na denda,
Koi vi mere, val na vehnda.

Par khaure kyun, tapala lagda,
Par khaure kyun, jhaula painda,
Har din, har ik bheed judi vichon,
Butt uda, jyun langh ke jaanda,
Par mainu hi, nazar na aunda.

Gumm gaya main us kudi de,
Chehre de vich gumeya rehnda,
Us de gham vich ghulda rehnda,
Us de gham vich khurda jaanda.

Us kudi nu, meri saun hai,
Us kudi nu, apni saun hai,
Us kudi nu, sab di saun hai,
Us kudi nu, jag di saun hai,
Us kudi nu, Rabb di saun hai,
Je kite, pad di ya sunn di hove,
Jeyundeya vi oh mar rahi hove,
Ik vaari aake mil jaave,
Wafa meri nu daag na laave,
Nahi taan methon jeeya na jaana,
Geet koi likhya na jaana!

Ik kudi, jida naa Mohabbat
Gumm hai !
Saad muraadi, Sohni phabat
Gumm hai, gumm hai,
Gumm hai..................

A Beautiful Song

2009-04-08T16:59:00.004+05:30

I don't usually listen to English songs, but I would like to share this one over here. The lyrics of the song really touched my soul, looked similar to the content that I normally write and think about. Here are the lines:

Feeling Blue,
Well I am trying to forget the feeling that I miss you,
Feeling Green,
When the jealousy swells and it wont go away and dreams,
Feeling Yellow,
I am confused inside, a little hazy but mellow.

When I feel your eyes on me,
Feeling fine, its sublime,
When that smile of yours creeps into my mind.

Nobody told you would it feel so good,
Nobody said you would be so beautiful,
Nobody warned me about your smile,
You are the light,
You are the light,
When i close my eyes,
I am colour blind.

Feeling Red, When you spend all your time with your friends and not me instead, Feeling Black, When I think about all of the things that I feel I lack, Feeling Jaded, When its not gone right, all the colours are faded.

Blinded by the light you shine, the colors fade completely
Blinded by you every time, I feel you start to hate me,

I am colour blind, I just can't deny this feeling....

Darius Danesh,
Colourblind

Hats off to the lyrics writer, it really proves that love & emotions always have a common meaning, no matter in what language they are expressed.........

Here's the youtube link : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKFRQ02L-Vg

Attitude is Everything!

2009-03-19T22:42:00.000+05:30

By Francie Baltazar-Schwartz

Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.

"Yes it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."

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I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.

Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.

I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live.

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man. " I knew I needed to take action."

"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply... I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is everything.

Want to witness the positive side of my life? Try at your own risk....

2009-03-16T22:38:00.000+05:30

For some of my previous posts, I have come to be known as a true delicate and emotional guy, full of negative thoughts, among my close friend(s). Just for that sake, I am coming up with this current post.

OK. So, when do the clouds of any negative thoughts hover upon us? When does a person feel totally detached from life? When does there comes a point in life when the person finds no particular reason to live? What causes a person to commit suicide? Why does a person believe that nothing in the world belongs to him or her? Why it gets so difficult to just pass the time? Why does life seems as just GOING ON?

Enough. I believe there is a single answer to all of the above questions. But what it actually is, is actually very hard to find.

You know that something is missing for sure, but are still unaware of that Something, what is it?

I guess it to be one's own confidence level towards life. Yes, it makes sense. Just a simple concept but yet so difficult.

Sometimes, some such kind of things happen that just kill your self confidence. These can be related to anything- your family, surrounding environment, you yourself, your colleagues, working atmosphere, colour of your bed sheet or maybe the clothes that you wear.

This is what I could collect upon thinking a lot. I may even be wrong but I know that you are always there to correct me up.

I would like to mention a good Sidhuism over here:

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"Aadarsh purush wahi hota hai jo khud ko paristhitiyon ke anusar dhaal le ya phir paristhitiyon ko hi apne anukool bana le".
That's all what is in my hands, i.e. to improve. Now, lets see how much my surroundings favour me.

Mind it-- the person never changes his personality at will but definitely develops upon it once he or she comes to know about the shortcomings. The whole credit goes to the one pointing the mistakes.
Moreover, that person is the best one who can be the most useful in building the confidence and hence improving upon yourself. Benefit from him or her before its too late.

One more thing, positivity comes as a bye product of your self-confidence. Nothing so exceptional about it.

"How can you expect a treat from a dying fellow?"

A Lesson from the Sri Sai SatCharita

2009-02-26T22:36:00.004+05:30

"The devotees have to trim their heart-lamp of faith and devotion, and burn in it wicks of love, and when this is done, the flame of knowledge (self-realization) will be lit up and shine brighter. Mere knowledge without love is dry; nobody wants such knowledge. Without love there is no contentment; so we should have unbroken and unbounded love. How can we praise love? Everything is insignificant before it. Without love our reading, hearing and the study are of no avail. In the wake of love follow devotion, dispassion, peace and liberation with all their treasures. We do not get love for anything unless we feel earnestly about it. So where there is real yearning and feeling, God manifests Himself. It includes love and is the means of liberation."

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Sai Baba

Now this is what I call as COMMITTMENT

A reason..........

2009-02-06T12:40:00.019+05:30

Ye dil bhi kaisi ajeeb cheez banayi hai Bhagwan,
Jahan sab--hath,pair,kidney,liver insaan ke bas mein diye hain,
To yeh muthi bhar dil ka control use kyun nahin diya ?

Chahe ise jitna marji pakad ke rakho,
Par kambakhat apni harkaton se baaz nahin aata.
Jab bhi kisi par aa jaye,
Jeena mushkil kar deta hai.

Pehle to insaan sote samay hi sapne dekha karta hai,
Par ye dil jab kisi par aa jaye,
To neend to door ki baat,
Aankh khulte hi na jaane kaise-kaise sapne dikhata rehta hai.

Acha bhala aadmi khud ko ullu & chowkidar ki category mein add kar deta hai, jise aashiq kehte hain, aur raat bhar so nahi paata.

Insaan ko kya se kya bana deta hai ye dil,
Wo khud bhi samajh nahi paata.

Agar kandhe par apne chahne walon ka haath ho to usse zada confidence ki feeling kahin ho hi nahi sakti.

Apni field mein best perform karne ka reason,
Ache kapde pehan kar acha dikhne ka reason,
Apne aap ko physically fit rakhne ka reason,
Apne aap mein hi khoye rehne ka reason,
Akele mein haste rehne ka reason,
Kisi aur se baat na karne ka reason,
Har chahne wale se khul ke milne ka reason,
Har pal khush rehne ka reason,
Veeran raston pe akele chalte rehne ka reason,
Exams na hone par bhi raat ko neend na aane ka reason,
Jo aaj tak kabhi na kiya ho wo sab karne ka reason,
Dil ki baaton ko lafzon pe laane ka reason,
Fazool mein blog likhte rehne ka reason,
Aur bhi na jaane kya kuch,
Sab dil hi to provide karta hai.

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Par dukh ki baat to ye hai ki ye sab sirf tabhi acha lagta hai jab tak do chahne wale ek saath hon.

Sabse zada dukh to tab hota hai jab ye sab one-sided love ka consequence ho.

Khushi ke palon mein to hum sab bhool jaate hain magar yahi dil hai jo hamein:
Bewajah rulata hai,
Har pal satata hai,
Kisi layak nahi chodta.

In short, agar ye dil zindgi jeene ka maksad ban jata hai to baad mein zindgi se door bhag jaane ka reason bhi yahi dil ban sakta hai.

Sabhi dil ka wyapar karne walon se meri ye khaas guzarish hai-----
Please kisi ki bhi chahat ko thes na pahunchana aur itna bhi dhyan zarur rakhna ki kisi aur ki bewafai se khud ko zada thes na pahunche.

Kisi ko itna mat chaho ki uski chahat tumhari majburi ban jaaye,
Chaho to itna chaho ki tumhara pyar uski zarurat ban jaaye.

Aur ab dono haath jodkar, sar ko jhukakar, main apne Uparwale se yahi winti karna chahta hu:
Hey Bhagwaan, agar koi kisi ko sache dil se chahe to please use kabhi bhi gam mein rone na dena, use shakti dena ki wo apne pyar mein safal ho sake, uski help karna, please........

Some good lines

2009-01-31T12:13:00.003+05:30

You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone

who will never be able to repay you.

The best portion of a good man's life - his little,

nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch,

a smile, a kind word, a listening ear,

an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring,

all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

The true meaning of life is to plant trees,

under whose shade you do not expect to sit.

I expect to pass through life but once.

If therefore, there be any kindness I can show,

or any good thing I can do to any fellow being,

let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it,

as I shall not pass this way again.

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The best things in life are nearest:

Breath in your nostrils,
Light in your eyes,
Flowers at your feet,
Duties at your hand.

Then do not grasp at the stars,

but do life's plain, common work as it comes.

A good character is the best tombstone.

Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered.

Life is mostly froth and bubble,
Two things stand like stone,
Kindness in another's trouble,
Courage in your own.

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young,

compassionate with the aged,

sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong.

Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.

You cannot do a kindness too soon,

for you never know how soon it will be too late.

Carve your name on hearts, not on marble.

PATIENCE, it Helps or it Kills......?

2009-01-08T15:01:00.001+05:30

Lets try to figure out something about the term PATIENCE today. Its my favourite piece of advice to any kind of a problem for anyone, I have joined a community 'Prayer and Patience are my weapons' on orkut, I fully believe in the concept as well but what so happened now, that I have chosen this very topic for my post over here?

Advices are always for others, very easy to suggest yet extremely difficult to be worked upon. We never hesitate in providing free suggestions but what if we ourselves have to carry on the same? I suggest people not to waste time, not to lose opportunities, to listen to the heart and not the mind, to forget about the rest, to avoid situations where you dont have to say 'Kaash !' in the end and what not.

But what happens to me when all these things apply on myself? Kehta to main bahut kuch hu, par aksar bhul jaata hu, ke hun to mai bhi ek insaan hi. On such occasions, I feel totally lonely as there seems no one to share my feelings with except my dear blog, then I realise that it might be none other than my patience which is responsible for my lonliness, what am I waiting for?

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I remember a song(video) by Amrinder Gill, "Tere darshan bade zaruri", in which the person waits and waits and waits for I dont know what but finally he is seen watching his love sitting behind on a bike with her husband and at that very time he is advised by an old man who used to observe him daily
"Bolna painda e kaka, bolna painda e".

Us bande ko ye gyan tab jakar mila but main to iske bare mein abhi likh raha hu par implement kab karunga?

Yet another recent song to be mentioned, "Haule Haule", from 'Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi' where SRK is seen playing a simple person like me who is so desperate to express his love but is trying to talk to and convince himself to be patient.

These are just modes of entertainment, the songs and movies, but what to do in real life scenario. What is the purpose of such songs, can we draw out any moral out of these and then can we implement those in our lives? Obviously, we can but what about the success rate? How can we analyse that before implementing? We cannot.

So, my dear readers, please learn something out of this and let me also know whether something worked out or not. Till that time, I shall be using my other weapon, PRAYER, in order to have my goal achieved.

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Bada ho gaya yar, chaddo duniya daari, Ye saale duniya wale to hote hi ghatiya hain, Khud to kisi layak hote nahin, Doosre ko kuch karne nahin dete!!! Inka to kuch hota nahin, Agar koi inki wajah se, bewakuf bankar, step back karle, To usi ko apna success maan ke baith jaate hain!!
"Bhaad me jao saalon from now onwards"
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LOVE...........???

2009-01-07T21:23:00.002+05:30

I was asked about what is love quite a long time back, around 5-6 months ago by a very close friend. I even answered but probably I feel I can answer it in a better way now.

Love Will Get You Through Times Of No Money Better

Than Money Gets You Through Times Of No Love.

The spaces between our fingers were created so that another person's fingers can fill them up.

When you love someone, draw a CIRCLE around your names instead of a heart because hearts can be broken while circles never end.

You will know when you really love someone when you want her to be happy even if her happiness means that you're not a part of it.

If I were to describe love, I would compare it with what one snowman did to another snowwoman - he gave her a warm embrace and they melted in each other's arms.

If I had the letters "HRT", I can add "EA" to get a HEART or a "U" and get HURT, but I'd rather choose "U" and get HURT than have a HEART without "U".

You never lose in loving. You lose in holding back.

Dream what u want to dream
Go where u want to go
Be what u want to be
Because u have only one life & one chance to do all

When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared
they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because
not only do they still love you, they love you even more.
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When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You know that your name is safe in their mouth.

Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your food,
without making them give you any of theirs.

Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.

Love is when your mommy makes coffee for your daddy and she takes a sip
before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it
everyday.

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him
alone all day.

I know my elder brother loves me because he gives me all his old
clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.

When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little
stars come out of you.

Love is a bird,

It needs to fly

Love makes you scream,

It makes you sigh,

Love is a wave,

Waiting to crash on the shores

Love is like the season's first rain

Ready to pour

Love is the moist flower

Covered with morning dew

Love is a tonic

To cure your soul

Love is a book,

Don’t judge it by the cover, you need to go through to feel its power

Love is like a rose,

Blooming from the bud

Love is a gamble,

Where even a loss means something

Love is a mystery

No one can solve it better than the LUCKY TWO!!

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You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you really mean it.
But if you do mean it, don't be shy to say it aloud.
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I can't bear this Pain Anymore..........

2009-01-04T16:18:00.002+05:30

It can be disregarded once in a while, but the pain that you provide me everytime is getting unbearable now.

I lost my everything for your sake, my friends, my position, my heart, everything that was coming in between you and me but now when I seem to loose you, I am actually left with nothing.

Even tried extremely hard to forget our past, but I could not.
Its not even that you don't know but then why do you do so?

I don't ask for anything else but just a nice friend to talk to, to listen to, to walk along, to share my feelings with but each time I don't see this happening, I just get broken up completely.

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I am just looking for a single person jiske saath formalty na karni pade balki dil khud hi majbur kar de saath chalne ko.
And I even expect the same from the other side as well. I just want you to be with me and only me when you are with me, completely.

Don't take me wrongly but I feel I have started taking you more seriously now, even expecting more from your side.

Don't know the reason but its definitely true. Tried to hold as much as I could but its out of my bounds now.

Dosti Kya Hai ???

2008-12-20T12:27:00.001+05:30

Dosti pehli baarish ki boondon mein hai
Dosti khilte phoolon ki khushboo mein hai
Dosti dhalte suraj ki kirnon mein hai

Dosti har naye din ki umeed hai
Dosti khwaab hai, dosti jeet hai

Dosti pyar hai, dosti geet hai
Dosti do jahanon ka sangeet hai

Dosti guroor hai, dosti ibadat hai,dosti vishwas hai
Dosti do dilon ke beech panapta ehsaas hai

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Dosti har khushi, dosti zindagi
Dosti roshni, dosti bandagi hai

Dosti sang chalti hawaon mein hai
Dosti in barasti ghataon mein hai

Dosti doston ki wafaon mein hai

Haath utha kar jo maangi hai dua
Dosti ka asar un duaon mein hai

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I feel so complete with you,

I never wanna let you go !!!

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If, one day..........!!!

2008-12-18T02:30:00.002+05:30

If one day you feel like crying ……… call me
I don’t promise that I will make you laugh.
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away,
Don’t be afraid to call me.
I don’t promise to ask you to stop
But I can run with you.

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If one day, you don’t want to listen to anybody …….. call me.
I promise to be very quite.

But if one day you call and…..
And there is no answer

Come fast to see me

" perhaps I need you "

Our Togetherness

2008-12-15T14:58:00.004+05:30

I won't last for long, My writing skills won't last either

Neither will I be present tomorrow nor this stupid blogging of mine

So many people came and went before me
Some were lucky while others just witnessed their hard fate

They too belonged to some moment of time as I am today

I shall also be leaving some day, though today I am a part of you

Many others will even come, in near times, to pluck up the sprouting petals off your good times

Many of them will be much better than I am, much better than I was rather

Only a bit of me will be remembered then, but why??

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This so much busy world out there, why will anybody waste their important time

I will not last for long nor will remain any of my marks behind

Whatever I am today, you have made out of me
Once you leave, I shall also be left with nothing of my own
Thanks for being in my life, teaching me so many things

Now left with just a small time, I would like to live and enjoy its every single moment because I will be dead at once, once this time of our togetherness gets over, like I was, before I had met you

Don't know shall I have grudge against God for such a short time or be happy for atleast this much

But I'll definitely pray if this life could be a bit more longer

Something is Missing

2008-12-10T15:29:00.015+05:30

Everyday I live, Everyday I die
Everyday

Holding your finger, I walk all through the day
By you being alongside, I leave home and reach back everyday

I am not away from you even for a single moment
Everyday and night, only with you, only u, all around

Everyday, everyday I live, Everyday I die

Everyday I observe this world through your eyes
As you would like, the same way I strive to be

Your memories also move close with me like you did

Every instance, in your talks, the useless talks
I am lost within myself, everyday, yes Everytime

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Everytime I sing something, you are remembered
Everytime I wear something, you are remembered
Everytime I go somewhere, you are remembered
Everytime I loose something, you are remembered
Everytime I achieve something, you are remembered

Everyday I walk now, on your memories through this journey called Life
With you is brighter,
With you is alive,
This very town called MY Heart

Everyday Everyday

***
Everyday, I feel you a bit more closer to me,
The very next moment, I feel you getting away from me.
I find myself stuck in between,
Just like a damaged fighter plane in mid air,
I request you to take the role of the pilot in my life,
And guide me about my Fate
***

I certainly miss those late night chats

Confidence......!!!

2008-12-09T18:05:00.006+05:30

One of the few things in this world that money can't purchase is Confidence. But do we really seem to buy it or its something within our mindset? Let's try to find out.

When do we feel confident and why do we feel so?
We feel confident when we have something that others don't have and that because we have a sense of security about that particular possessing. We might also feel a bit extra confident once the surrounding environment is also pleasant.
A good confidence level makes us feel more comfortable everywhere.

What is Confidence?
Ask a sis how she feels while tying the Rakhi to her brother.
Ask a child how he or she feels with the parents being around.
Ask a widow how she felt when her husband was alive.
Ask the Nation how It feels when there is no Defense at the borders.
Ask any HIM how much stronger HE becomes when his SHE holds his hand.
How confident are my pigeons when they wander around me, even when I am empty handed......!!

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We can't describe Confidence, we can only feel it. In short, there must be a reason to be confident about. How can I feel so when I know nothing is in my hands? Yes, one can be confident about things that don't exist actually because if they existed, there should be some unpredictability factor associated and how can a person believe in such nature?

***
Hey, dont dare to be more confident than I m with u being along. U r my over confidence and i m proud of that.
With U, I m the King
Without U, I m only a Singh
and I can't imagine myself without u anymore now.
I wont ask you to turn this Singh into a King but I'll make that happen, that's my promise. Just wait for my height of confidence now.
Ni tu Jatt di pasand,
Jatt ne wihauni ah
***

Finally, all the Struggles come to an End !!!

2008-11-22T17:33:00.000+05:30

Witnessed a very strange day today. A day full of sad events.
A classmate of mine lost her dad today. An architect by profession, who must have dreamt so much for his family. The daughter about to pass out as an engineer, the son also admitted to the same college just four months back.

Were all the responsibilities over for the dad or was still left with something? In these 2.5 years of study, being away from home, the daughter never used a cell phone, what was the logic behind her father's wish of buying her a cell phone just before two months of his death? Was it that the children don't feel alone at this sad moment, that they could easily be provided the shoulders of their classmates at this hard time of their life?

So many questions left unanswered yet very clear.

Oh God, what kind of a justice is this,
"Jab insaan ki jeene ki tamanna jagti hai, to fir usi samay use mukti dene ka kya matlab?"

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Another incident of the same day, a shop owner had a similar fate and all the shops of the market were closed today. What do the other shop keepers achieve? Closed for a single day or for a maximum of two, what thereafter? Only the family members have to bear the loss.

A yet another incident wherein a well-to-do person was being carried upon the shoulders of some 5-6 labourers due to some illness, but there was no family member to share the grief with.

***
Hey Bhagwaan, ye kaisi Leela hai yar, jab interest hota hai to koi zaahir karne ke liye nahi hota aur jab koi zaahir karne ke liye milta hai to interest hi khatam ho jata hai.
Anyways, Allah Maalik !!!!!!!!!
***

A True Request

2008-11-09T11:00:00.008+05:30

Je Tu Akhiyan De Samne Nai Rehna
Te Biba Sada Dil Mod De

Kar Betha Sajna Bharosa Tere Pyar Te
Dil Ron Betha Ve Tere Aitebaar Te

Asaan Nit Da Vichora Naiyo Sehna
Te Biba Sada Dil Mod De

Inj Door Door Reh Ke Naiyo Chalna
Asaan Deed Bina Nahi Kuch Hor Mangna

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Je Inna Nikka Jeya Kehna Vi Ni Mannana
Te Biba Sada Dil Mod De

Tenu Naal Bitha Ke Dil Walay Kai Phed Kholne
Asaan Tere Naal Kayi Dukh Sukh Pholne

Je Sade Kol Ni Tu Khari Pal Baina
Te Biba Sada Dil Mod De

Je Teri Marzi E Sade Naalo Wakh Hon Di
Saadi Marzi Vi E Tere Piche Kakh Hon Di

Je Dukh Pichla Hi Jogian Wala Sanu Dena
Te Biba Sada Dil Mod De

Je Tu Akhiyan De Samne Nai Rehna
Te Biba Sada Dil Mod De

***
Suna hai ke nazron se dur hone par dil bhi dur ho jaate hain,
Main ise maanta to nahin,
par tumhe kisi aur ki nazron ke saamne dekh bhi nahi sakta

Sachi, Je Tu SIRF Saadi Ban Ke Nayi Rehna,
Te, Please, Biba Saada Dil Mod de,
Saanu Saade Joga Te Rehan De...
***

Feelings during Holidays

2008-10-26T00:32:00.000+05:30

Punjaabis have a great IQ, not doubts about that, whatever field you take.
I would like to share a recent experience, that too the lyrics of a song.
Thanks to the internet and computers + the recession going on in the IT industry.....why??? This will be clear to you once you go through these lyrics.

see off kitta na tu airport te,
jaan laggi sohneya gayi c dass k

lag gaya study visa england da,
sohniye tu chadh gayi jahaaj hass k

saun nahiyon dindiya ve yaadan teriyan,
bhaanwe tetho baithi aan hajaaran meel ve

ditta na jawaab meri e-mail da ??,
dass kedi nakhro ne leya keel ve

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chakkaran che pa gayi tun begaane putt nu,
pyaar wich buriyan judaaiyan hundiyan

bhoot c sawaar aiwen baar aan da,
dass sathon kediyaan padhayian hundiyan ??

saada keda ithe channo chitt lagda,
kiddan da hoya firaan upset ni

kahton gusse huni e jiyun jogiye,
tere maare ghar che lawa leya net ni

sara sara din chat kar k,
labh leni navi koi friend ve

pyaar pa k sohneya na bhul jayi,
na tadpaavin saadi jind ve

pehli pehli waar jithe aapan mile c,
bhulni ne chandigarh waali jheel ve

ditta na jawaab meri email da, dass kedi nakhro ne leya keel ve ??

langha jadon college de kol di,
sohniye bhulekhe tere pain ni

hun net te rojana time kad k,
ho jeya kraange doven online ni

sohniye ni dil di bhadaas kadh k,
kareya karange dowen gitt mitt ni

kahton gusse huni e jiyun jogiye,
tere maare ghar che lawa leya net ni

aen na jaana chitt jhalleya,
lejun marriage kara k tenu naal ve

ucchi neevi aaj sadi maaf kar dayin,
kar jayin na buri koi gall feel ve

ditta na jawaab meri email da, dass kedi nakhro ne leya keel ve ??

tere naal sachi jaane meriye,
saanjh kayi janmaan di pa layi hun main

kahton gusse huni e ..........?????

***

Wah, jawab nayi punjabiyaan da.

Bilkul exact baat ki hai yahan pe, no scope for any error.

Aisa hi hota hai

***
I miss u so much dear, specially those late night chats

Writing from Goa Today

2008-10-11T23:00:00.009+05:30

Looking outside the window today,
I am able to see the ocean today,
Just water all over the place,
Filling up every corner of the world today.

The Sun coming down to meet the beach,
The whole Nature seems blushing today with the colour of pink,
Songs all over the place, the shores whistling endlessly today,
The tender breeze soothing the pains, what a lovely romantic scene today.

A busy schedule, a meeting today,
A visit to beach, a market today,
They call it as mere enjoyment, a lot of masti and cool play,
They call it as a never get back opportunity.

Now, some are busy chatting with their loved ones,
A few talking to their parents today,
With bottles of fenny all over the place today,
But me, as always, sitting aside-alone, observing the Nature today.

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Enjoyment means a lot for those who want to enjoy,
There must be a reason to enjoy today,
I wonder how they could enjoy by cheating their parents & loved ones,
But still, they call this as enjoyment today.

I wish I could also understand the meaning of joy,
I wish I could also have a reason to enjoy today,
But I guess it is not meant for what I am today,
It is something that is not created for me today.

My first ever trip by air yesterday,
My longest ever journey by train tomorrow,
A great achievement at Microsoft today,
But still, no such reason to enjoy today.

Enjoyment is something you cherish with the loved ones,
It is something you get by serving people in need,
It is something you get by being with your family,
It is something that I cant explain but am missing it a lot today.

Har subha ke baad shaam hoti hai,Har dawa ke saath dua hoti hai,
Kal ki shaam bhi ek nayi shaam hogi,is khoobsurat jagah se widayi ki shaam hogi,
Wapis apni usi jagah par,
Samundar ki gehraayion se kaafi door, Pahadi vaadiyon ke aanchal mein,
Jahan aur to kuch nahi par meri enjoyment hogi.

Zindgi 4 dinon ka khel hai doston,
2 nikal gaye, 2 din aaram se jee lo,
Ye waqt dobara nahi milne wala,
Kuch aisa kar jao ke kabhi kaash na kehna pade.

***I wish you were here today***

No, I cant leave you now, at any cost

2008-09-30T15:36:00.004+05:30

I never expected myself writing this post but some well experienced aspects of life plus some beautiful, well hit words by the one I value the most in my life forced me to change my mind and here I am.

Can we ask an ocean to return some particular water droplets ?
Can we ask a honeybee to return the nectar from a particular flower ?
Can we ask a paper to return the ink marked over it ?
Can we ask a spider to set free a fly caught in its web ?
Can we ask our brain to forget the ABCD...Z ?
Can we ask a leather belt to turn back to skin ?
Can a fish propose a bird, or vice versa, for marriage ?

In a similar fashion, we can never bring back any particular day of life.

Days come and go by. Everyday is not the same always.
Life is nothing without struggle. Its like a cricket match which everyone of us is familiar with. Both the playing teams know that either of them will have to loose, they are prepared for the outcome, but still they play and try hard to win.
Then, how could a person like me lose hope? Why so much of negative thoughts wandering nearby, why, why ??? I could find no answer.

But ya, a feeling of insecurity or rather a ghost with the name of INSECURITY had caught me under its influence. But insecurity about what ? Was it about a sense of loosing something, something extremely close ?

Yes I guess, but soon I realised :

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What did I bring with myself at birth ?
I had never expected whatever I am today.
I was scheduled to burn myself in the hotness of the Shivnagri Nalagarh.
But now, here I am, sitting with a sweater on, in the Queen of Hills, back home.

Whatever I expected in my life, I could never achieve that, maybe because that was not meant for me at all.

Today, I am considered as the most lucky person by one and all (even though the same people are damn jealous).

Today, I am being specially told by my well-wishers------

"Veer ji, tuhadi wajah naal Punjabiyan di vi kadar hon lag payi is University ch"

Then I was also told my my insecurity factor not to be insecure, only then I could realise how big a fool I were about to act so negatively. I know, I have nothing to loose now.

Are yaar, by God's grace, I dont have any bad addictions, no bad company or any such interest nor any grudges against anyone inside my heart, most of the times, I am seen wandering around places of worship, my God always listens to my prayers even before I pray. All credit to Him for everything I am.

Such beautiful friends and great things I have on my part today that I could be the happiest person. Please God, save me and our friendship from all sorts of bad eyes, I devote everything to You.

***Je laayi yaari, mul modna paina,
Tu agge lang gaya, tenu fark ni paina,
Main picche hat gaya, mera kakh ni rehna***

How could I forget that I belong to the community where there is no place for any sort of insecurity.

***Chidiyaan naal je baaz ladawan,
Taan hi Guru Gobind Singh Naam dharawaan***

I am ready for everything now, bas meri rakheyo laaj Gurudev.

Go Away & Enjoy your Life

2008-09-14T21:02:00.004+05:30

There is a storm in my heart
It tears my inside apart
I am bleeding and I am hurt
Like a wingless little bird

Then it turns dark
And for a moment I see
The pain that was inside of me
And on a journey I embark

In search of answers
In search of truth
In search of understanding
In search of you

My guiding star in darkness
Like a little stream in the desert
Everything about you seems flawless
But that is what causes the hurt
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Your perfect features do not belong to me
You do not deserve my chains
You need to live and see
What it means to be free

So spread your wings and fly away
For I can not fulfill your dream
But if you should fall one day
I'll guide you and be that little stream

So go and discover it all
And know that wherever you go
Whatever you do and might feel
The only thing you need to do is call

***
Agar khud ko dekhun,to kuch nahi mere palle,
Uski rehmat aur aapke pyar ko dekhun,to meri balle-balle
***

Expectations & Compromise

2008-09-07T11:20:00.021+05:30

"Experience is the greatest of all Teachers"
Life provides us with unthinkable situations that we never dreamed of, ever.
Its like a dream, where you find yourself in circumstances that you have never even thought of, at places that you have never even seen or been to.

Only life is the one that teaches you everything. Your parents can only pay your fees at schools, the teachers can only make you hold the pen & paper properly, but its all in your hands what you wana make out of that.

Its like the case of a matchstick that can be used to lit up candles symbolizing the ray of HOPE and even pyres are set ablaze with the same.

"God is the best player of our Life"
He knows about all of our needs. He provides us with opportunities to do all things in life either good or bad. Its in our own hands to grasp or loose them. In the end, we can never blame Him.

"Dream it, Deserve it & Achieve it"
All of us dream about our desires to be achieved but we forget to first being able to deserve them. God never wants His children to get pampered. I think He follows the Chinese proverb:

"Give your child a fish & you feed him for a day,
Teach him fishing & you prepare him to feed himself for the whole life"

If you ask something from God & He fulfills your desires at the same time, who will worship Him then? Every damn thing in this world has its own value but it needs to be realized.

"Dream, Desire & Responsibility"
You dream of something and you desire something else, is it so? If yes, you will never achieve it, until or unless your dream and desire are one & the same.

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But unfortunately, most of the times when these both get together, a third concept also arises like a villain in a romantic love story, by the name of Responsibility.

Your responsibility towards your parents who are the ones who made you capable of dreaming & desiring, towards your profession for whose sake your parents did everything they could, towards your well-wishers who want to see you succeed in every sphere of life.

"The Climax"
As there are so many expectations from you by so many people. Since you are also bound to them, if you know that you cant handle all your dreams, desires & responsibilities in a single hand, then the most difficult concept of life arises. I even fear of naming it as its a very simple word to be mentioned of but extremely hard to be followed but I'll have to mention it here as no one can escape reality, its COMPROMISE.
Compromise with your dreams, your own desires, your own friends but most importantly, compromise with your own self.

How can you compromise with the one you love more than yourself, that too for your parents or well-wishers whom you know very well, will not be there with you for your whole lifetime?

I mentioned it as most difficult because my eyes got full of tears while only writing the previous line.

Ironically, last night, while going through two of my syllabus books, one by an Indian & the other by a foreign author, I noticed that the Indian dedicated his work to his parents while the foreigner, to his love.

I could understand that Indians are the most responsible people, they dont love their own selves & their families, they dont fall in love rather they are not supposed to do so, they are the best while compromising, the foreigners are not responsible, they dont care for their parents and they never compromise.

I am ready to compromise if my God promises that my parents will remain with me all through my lifetime & die after me and I really wish this comes out to be true.

Am I correct in my understanding and my decision, please let me know?
Also, cant all of our dream, desire & responsibility go hand in hand?

But before concluding, I dedicate this content & even my everything else (either on or away from this blog) to the one I love even more than my hearts content.

***
Dard e dil, dard e jigar, dil me jagaya----aapne
Pehle to main shayar tha, Aashiq banaya----aapne
Maine to bas, wo sab likha, jo kuch likhaya----aapne
***

A Beautiful Song

2008-07-28T22:40:00.009+05:30

Kithe lukiyan,
kithe lukiyan
Galan si ye an kahiyan
Tenu wekhke, tenu wekhke
Aj e na jaan rokiyan

Shayad mai, chup hi rehnda
Dooron wekhda, kujh na kehnda
Par hasdi si, oh foka,
Dindi, khud nu dhokha

Mai boleya, tu kardi menu pyar
Mai boleya, tenu chadega bukhaar
Mai boleya, tenu aandi meri yaad
Mai boleya, teri jib te mera swaal

Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi,
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi,
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi

Sunke meri, sunke meri
Kujh oh hil si gayi
Kujh der taan, chup oh rahi
Fir oh inj boli

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"Jo kujh vi, si mai chaya
Mileya uho, zakhm mai paya
Hai poora mera jahan"

Te sunniyan das kyun teriyan akhan
Mai boleya tere ch khali ik thaan,
Na bhar sakke, oh koi mere siva
Na lagna ithe koi gulab
Uggna, bas ik kanda tikha

Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi,
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi,
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi

Jaana na mai fail hona ya pass,
Chali jo tu gayi en us paar
Mai tan bhanve apne, bul see lavan,
Par bolda e mera eh dil,
Raati uth, ronda e mera eh blog

Ja, tenu kujh pata nahi,
Ja, tenu kujh pata nahi
Ja, tenu kujh pata nahi,
Ja, tenu kujh pata nahi

Mai boleya, tu kardi menu pyar
Mai boleya, tenu chadega bukhaar
Mai boleya, tenu aaugi meri yaad
Mai boleya, teri jib te mera sawaal
Mai boleya, ro ro hovengi bezaar
Mai boleya, aavange haddan paar

Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi,
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi,
Sirf tenu aj e pata nahi

Inspired By:
Rabbi Shergill
(Avengi Ja Nahin)

I would like to be...............

2008-07-23T14:20:00.004+05:30

I'd like to be the sort of friend that
you have been to me;
I'd like to be the help that
you've been always glad to be;

I'd like to mean as much to you
each minute of the day
As you have meant, old friend of mine,
to me along the way.

I'd like to do the big things and
the splendid things for you,
To brush the gray from out your skies
and leave them only blue;

I'd like to say the kindly things that
I so oft have heard,
And feel that I could rouse your soul
the way that mine you've stirred.

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I'd like to give you back the joy
that you have given me,
Yet that were wishing you a need
I hope will never be;

I'd like to make you feel as rich as I,
who travel on
Undaunted in the darkest hours with you to
lean upon.

I'm wishing at this time that I
could but repay
A portion of the gladness that
you've strewn along my way;

And could I have one wish this year,
this only would it be:
I'd like to be the sort of friend
that you have been to me.

I don't Express Myself..........................huh !!!!!!!!!

2008-06-20T16:07:00.031+05:30

How shall i tell, what do i feel about u
How shall i tell, how much i care for u
How shall i tell, how much i like u
How shall i tell, how much i need u
How shall i tell, how much i am concerned about u
How shall i tell, that everyone else now seems to be a sister
How shall i tell, how i feel when u talk about someone else
How shall i tell, how it feels to see u with someone else
How shall i tell how much i miss u when u are not nearby

How shall i tell how much it pains to say u Bye !
How shall i tell, that i always want to be with u
How shall i tell, how much i missed u until u entered my life, heart & soul, why were u so late ?

How shall i tell, that my day is incomplete without a look of urs
How shall i tell, how much i like listening to u (that too, unnecessarily)
How shall i tell, that a single look of urs is even more intoxicating than the strongest of all wines

How shall i tell, that i badly needed someone to talk to,
to listen to,
to trust upon,
to tell me whats right or wrong,
to quarrel with,
to spend my time with,
to share my sorrows,
to multiply my joys,
to make me laugh, :-)
to make me tense,
to make me confident,
to point out my short-comings,
to tell me what actually i am and what could i be,
to be in company when i am left alone, :-(
to make me feel that i am not useless,
to leap upon & hold my hand to walk me through all the troubles

How shall i tell, that now i cant live without u
How shall i tell, that rest of the world is now meaningless to me
How shall i tell, how much i love u

The world can see the differences in me since i met u
I know that its all because of u & u too are aware

It is also not so, that u dont like me
But i m afraid to ask u,
Not because of fear of rejection but fear of loosing u

I never asked u if u also feel the same,
Actually, I can live with the assumption that u also love me,
But a NO will certainly kill me

I have many questions inside me :

Kahin tum naraz to nahi ho jaogi ?
Kahin tum mujhe galat na samjho ?
Kahin mai tumhari dosti bhi na kho du ?
Do u also feel the same for me ?
You will find many better options in life, am I the right candidate for u ?
Kahin tum kisi aur se ...........?
Will u be happy with me ?
Can ur dreams be fulfilled by me or not ?

Now that I have cleared my thoughts for her,
I acclaim my love on the World Wide Web.
Hopefully, this will be achieved in front of her as well.

Wish me luck !!

Reason behind the Success of Infosys (Women Power)

2008-05-31T17:43:00.026+05:30

The article has actually been written by Sudha Murthy, wife of the Infosys Chairman
It was in Pune that I met Narayan Murty through my friend Prasanna (Wipro chief), who was also training in Telco with me. Murty was shy,bespectacled and an introvert. When he invited us for dinner. I was a bit taken aback as I thought the young man was making a very fast move.
I refused since I was the only girl in the group.The next day I went there at 7 since I had to go to the tailor near the hotel. And what do I see? Mr. Murty waiting in front of the hotel.
Soon, we became friends. Our conversations were filled with Murty’s experiences abroad and the books that he has read. My friends insisted that Murty is trying to impress me because he was interested in me. I kept denying it till one fine day, after dinner Murty said, I want to tell you something. I knew this as it was coming. He said,

"I am 5′4″ tall. I come from a lower middle class family. I can never become rich in my life and I can never give you any riches. You are beautiful, bright and intelligent and you can get anyone you want. But will you marry me?"

I asked Murty to give me some time for an answer. My father didn’t want me to marry a wannabe politician who didn’t have a steady job and wanted to build an orphanage. When I went to Hubli I told my parents about Murty and his proposal. My mother was positive since Murty was also from Karnataka, seemed intelligent and comes from a good family. But my father asked: What’s his job, his salary, his qualifications etc? Murty was working as a research assistant and was earning less than me. My parents agreed to meet Murty in Pune on a particular day at 10 am sharp. Murty did not turn up. How can I trust a man to take care of my daughter if he cannot keep an appointment, asked my father.

At 12, Murty turned up in a bright red shirt! He had gone on work to Bombay, was stuck in a traffic jam so he hired a taxi (though it was very expensive) to meet his would-be father-in-law. But father was unimpressed. My father asked him what he wanted to become in life. Murty said he wanted to become a politician in the communist party and wanted to open an orphanage. My father gave his verdict. "NO, I don’t want my daughter to marry somebody who wants to become a communist and then open an orphanage when he himself didn’t have money to support his family."

Ironically, today, I have opened many orphanages something, which Murty wanted to do 25 years ago. By this time I realized I had developed a liking towards Murty which could only be termed as love. I wanted to marry Murty because he is an honest man. He proposed to me highlighting the negatives in his life. I promised my father that I will not marry Murty without his blessings though at the same time, I cannot marry anybody else. My father said he would agree if Murty promised to take up a steady job. But Murty refused saying he will not do things in life because somebody wanted him to. So, I was caught between the two most important people in my life. The stalemate continued for three years during which our courtship took us to every restaurant and cinema hall in Pune. In those days, Murty was always broke. Moreover, he didn’t earn much to manage.
Ironically today, he manages Infosys Technologies Ltd., one of the world’s most reputed companies. He always owed me money. We used to go for dinner and he would say,

"I don’t have money with me, you pay my share, I will return it to you later."

For 3 years, I maintained a book on Murty’s debt to me. No, he never returned the money and I finally tore it up after my wedding. The amount was a little over Rs 4000. During this interim period, Murty quit his job as research assistant and started his own software business. Now, I had to pay his salary too! Towards the late 70s computers were entering India in a big way.

During the end of 1977, Murty decided to take up a job as General Manager at Patni Computers in Bombay. But before he joined the company he wanted to marry me since he was to go on training to the US after joining. My father gave in as he was happy Murty had a decent job, now. We were married in his house with only our two families present. The expenses came to Rs 800. I went to the US with Murty after marriage. Murty encouraged me to see America on my own because I loved travelling.

In 1981, Murty wanted to start Infy. He had a vision but zero capital. Initially I was very apprehensive about Murty getting into business. We did not have any business background .. Moreover we were living a comfortable life in Bombay with a regular pay check and I didn’t want to rock the boat. But Murty was passionate about creating good quality software. I decided to support him. Typical of Murty, he just had a dream and no money. So I gave him Rs 10,000 which I had saved for a rainy day, without his knowledge and told him,"This is all I have, take it. I give you three years sabbatical leave. I will take care of the financial needs of our house. You go and chase your dreams without any worry. But you have only three years!"

Murty and his 6 colleagues started Infosys in 1981,with enormous interest and hard work. In 1982, I left Telco and moved to Pune with Murty. We bought a small house on loan which also became the Infosys office. I was a clerk-cum-cook-cum-programmer. I also took up a job as Senior Systems Analyst with Walchand group of Industries to support the house.

In 1983, Infosys got their first client, MICO, in Bangalore. Murty moved to Bangalore and stayed with his mother while I went to Hubli to deliver my second child, Rohan. Ten days after my son was born, Murty left for the US on project work. I saw him only after a year, as I was unable to join Murty in the US because my son had infantile eczema, an allergy to vaccinations. So for more than a year I did not step outside our home for fear of my son contracting an infection. It was only after Rohan got all his vaccinations that I came to Bangalore where we rented a small house in Jayanagar and rented another house as Infosys headquarters. My father presented Murty a scooter to commute. I once again became a cook, programmer, clerk, secretary, office assistant et al. Nandan Nilekani (MD of Infosys) and his wife Rohini stayed with us. While Rohini babysat my son, I wrote programs for Infosys.

There was no car, no phone, and just two kids and a bunch of us working hard, juggling our lives and having fun while Infosys was taking shape. It was not only me but also the wives of other partners too who gave their unstinted support. We all knew that our men were trying to build something good.

It was like a big joint family,taking care and looking out for one another. Murty made it very clear that it would either be me or him working at Infosys. Never the two of us together… I was involved with Infosys initially.

Nandan Nilekani suggested I should be on the Board but Murty said he did not want a husband and wife team at Infosys. I was shocked since I had the relevant experience and technical qualifications. He said, Sudha if you want to work with Infosys, I will withdraw, happily. I was pained to know that I will not be involved in the company my husband was building and that I would have to give up a job that I am qualified to do and love doing.

It took me a couple of days to grasp the reason behind Murty’s request. I realized that to make Infosys a success one had to give one’s 100 percent. One had to be focussed on it alone with no other distractions. If the two of us had to give 100 percent to Infosys then what would happen to our home and our children? One of us had to take care of our home while the other took care of Infosys.
I opted to be a homemaker, after all Infosys was Murty’s dream. It was a big sacrificebut it was one that had to be made. Even today, Murty says,

"Sudha, I stepped on your career to make mine, really, you are responsible for my success."

!! REALLY, THERE IS ALWAYS A WOMAN BEHIND EVERY SUCCESS !!
Sometimes, even a minute `galat-fehmi` may bring a lot of unexpected changes in yourself

***Samundar agar shaant ho to ye mat samajhna ki usme rawani nahi hai,

Tufaan ke saath lehren to oonchi uthti hain magar,

Usne uthne ki abhi thaani nahi hai***

I am Sorry

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Sorry if I keep on hurting you
Sorry if you don't like the things that I say or do
Sorry if with you I always put up a fight
Sorry I just can't do anything right

Sorry if I'm way far from being an angel
Sorry if you think my excuses are lies
Sorry if it's so difficult quiting my vice

Sorry if I'm not too understanding
Sorry for all the headaches and pain I bring
Sorry if often it's hard for me to swallow my attitude towards life

Sorry if I'm so complicated
Sorry I keep making you feel frustrated
Sorry I can't bring back the tears
Sorry if I keep you away from your peers

Sorry if I always complain about your bad habits
Sorry if i seem like a joke to you
Sorry if I don't appreciate all those sweet things that you do

Sorry if I keep on repeating the same mistakes
Sorry I say stupid things and can't find the courage to tell about whats inside my heart

Sorry if I screw up trying to be perfect for you
Sorry I could never be the guy who's right for you
Sorry if I'm such an awful friend
Sorry if...I can't even be your best friend

! SORRY for not being with you even when you invited !

Jab We Met

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I feel like I've known you forever
Although I only met you sometime this past year
But our friendship will remain forever
No matter what shall cross our paths and hearts

The best thing that's happened to me
Is finding a forever friend like you
You're there to listen, help, and talk to
And best of all, I know I can confide in you

Some say the best love is one sprung from friendship
So I feel this is why we should try
Time leads us in this direction
Should we follow on down the line?

Friendship and love are always intertwined
Too close which sometimes causes confusion
But if we don't try, we will never know if it was meant to be
But forever you will remain my friend

I don't know if this is going to work
I'm not totally sure we should try
But I have all these mixed feelings
Bottled up inside

I love you both inside and out as my best friend
And I know that you love me that way too
So when I say "best friends forever"
That even means when I'm saying "Don't worry, I love you, too".
!!!! I REALLY DO !!!!

Your Date of Birth

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1
The number 1 energy suggests an increased measure of executive ability and leadership qualities than your path may have indicated. No 1 of any month gives you greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach. This 1 energy may diminish your ability and desire to handle details with a broad brush. You may be sensitive, but your feelings stay rather repressed and subdued due to external bindings.

Bismarch , Alexander the Great, Annie Besant , Captain Cook and
Ferdinand De Lesseps were born under the number 1.

2
Your birth on the 2nd day of the month adds a degree of emotion, sensitivity, and intuition to your reading. You have a warmhearted nature and emotional understanding that constantly seeks affection.The 2 is a very social number allowing you to make friends easily and quickly. You are more prone than most to become depressed and moody, as emotions can turn inward and cause anxiety and mental turmoil.

Napolean 111,Edison, Thomas Hardy were born under the number 2.

3
Being born on the 3rd day of the month is likely to add a good bit of vitality to your life. The energy of 3 allows you to bounce back rapidly from all kinds of setbacks, be it physical or mental. There is a restlessness in your nature, but you seem to be able to portray an easygoing, sometimes "couldn't care less" attitude. You have a natural ability to express yourself in public, and you always make a very good impression. Good with words, you excel in writing, speaking, and possibly singing. You are energetic and always a good conversationalist. You are affectionate and loving, but sometimes too sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.

Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, Rudyard Kipling, Mark Twain,
Joseph Stalin were born under the number 3.

4
Being born on the 4th day of the month should help make you a better manager and organizer. You may be more responsible and self-disciplined .Sincere and honest, you are a serious and hard working individual. Limitations may be imposed by this 4 energy, especially if this number is active elsewhere in your reading. Your feelings are likely to seem somewhat repressed at times. The number 4 has something of an inhibiting effect on your ability to show and express affections, as feeling are very closely regulated and controlled. There is a good deal of rigidity and stubbornness associated with the number 4.

George Washington, Lord Byron, Faraday were born under the number 4.

5
With a birthday on the 5th of the month you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine. You may have a tendency to shirk responsibility.

Shakespeare, Karl Marx, Neil Armstrong, Eisenhower and Albert
Einstein were born under the number 5.

6
A birthday on the 6th of the month adds a tone of responsibility, helpfulness, and understanding to your natural inclinations. Those born on the sixth are more apt to be open and honest with everyone, and more caring about family and friends, too. This is a number associated with responsibility and caring.

Queen Victoria, Napolean1, Joan of Arc, Warren Hastings and Max
Muller were born under the number 6.

7
Born on the 7th day of month gives you a tendency to be something of a perfectionist and makes you more individualistic in many ways. Your mind is good at deep mental analysis and complicated reasoning. You are very psychic and sensitive, and you should usually follow your hunches. You may not take orders too well, so you may want to work alone or in a situation where you can be the boss. This birthday gives a tendency to be somewhat self-centered and a little stubborn.

Queen Elizabeth 1, Charles Dickens, Oscar Wilde, Sir Isaac Newton,
William Wordsworth and Billy Graham were born under the number 7.

8
Born on the 8th day of the month, you have a special gift for business, as you can conceive and plan on a grand scale. You have good executive skills and you're a good judge of values. You should try to own your own business, because you have such a strong desire to be in control. You are generally reliable when it comes to handling money. Idealistic by nature, you are never too busy to spend some time on worthwhile causes, especially if managerial support are needed. There is much potential for material success associated with this number.

George Bernadshaw, Sir Humphry Davy, Christian Bernard, Elizabeth
Taylor were born under the number 8.

9
Your birth on the 9th day of the month adds a tone of idealism and humanitarianism to your nature. You become one who can work easily with people because you are broadminded, tolerant and generous. You are ever sensitive to others' needs and feelings, and even if the other numbers in your core makeup don't show it, you are very sympathetic and compassionate. Your feeling run deep and you often find yourself in dramatically charged situations. This 9 energy always tends to give more that it gets.

Theodore Roosevelt, Greta Garbo, Richard Nixon, George Stephenson
were born under the number 9.

10
Your birth on the 10th day of the month adds a tone of independence and extra energy to your Life Path. The number 1 energy suggest more executive ability and leadership qualities than you path may have indicated. A birthday on the 10th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach. This 1 energy may diminish your ability and desire to handle details, preferring instead to paint with a broad brush. You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed. You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations.

. Did you know that Bismarch ,Alexander the Great, Annie Besant , Captain Cook and Ferdinand De Lesseps were born under the number 1?

11
Your birth on the 11th day of the month makes you something of a dreamer and an idealist. You work well with people because you know how to use persuasion rather than force. There is a strong spiritual side to your nature, and you may have intuitive qualities inherent in you. You are very aware and sensitive, though often temperamental. Although you have a good mind and you are very analytical, you may not be comfortable in the business world. You are definitely creative and this influence tends to make you more of a dreamer than a doer.

Napolean 111,Edison, Thomas Hardy were born under the number 2.

12
Being born on the 12th day of the month is likely to add a good bit of vitality to your life. The energy of 3 allows you to bounce back rapidly from setbacks, physical or mental. There is a restlessness in your nature, but you seem to be able to portray an easygoing attitude. You have a natural ability to express yourself in public, and you always make a very good impression. Good with words, you excel in writing, speaking, and possibly singing. You are energetic and always a good conversationalist. You have a keen imagination, but you tend to scatter your energies and become involved with too may superficial matters. Your mind is practical and rational despite this tendency to jump about. You are affectionate and loving, but very sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.

Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, Rudyard Kipling, Mark Twain, Joseph Stalin were born under the number 3.

13
Being born on the 13th day of the month should help make you a better manager and organizer, but it may also give you a tendency to dominate people a bit. You may be more responsible and self-disciplined. Sincere and honest, you are a serious, hard working individual. Limitations may be imposed by this 4 energy, especially if there is additional indications the number elsewhere in your number. Your feelings are likely to seem somewhat repressed at times. Your intolerance and insistence on complete accuracy can be irritating to some.

George Washington, Lord Byron, Faraday were born under the number 4.

14
With a birthday on the 14th of the month you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas, and you are also very good at organization and systematizing. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine, and rebel against it. You have a tendency to shirk responsibility.

Shakespeare, Karl Marx, Neil Armstrong, Eisenhower and Albert Einstein were born under the number 5.

15
With a birthday on the 15th of any month, you are apt to have really strong attachments to home, family and domestic scene. The 1 and 5 equaling 6, provide the sort of energy that makes you an excellent parent or teacher. You are very responsible and capable. You like harmony in your environment and strive to maintain it. You tend to learn by observation rather than study and research. This number shows artistic leanings. You're a very generous and giving person, but perhaps a bit stubborn in ways.

Queen Victoria, Napolean 1, Joan of Arc, Warren Hastings and Max Muller were born under the number 6.

16
Your birth on the 16th day of the month gives a sense of loneliness and generally the desire to work alone. You are relatively inflexible, and insist on your being independent. You need a good deal of time to rest and to meditate. You are introspective and a little stubborn. Because of this, it may not be easy for you to maintain permanent relationships, but you probably will as you are very much into home and family. This birth day inclines to interests in the technical, the scientific, and to the religious explorations. You may be emotional, but have a hard time expressing these emotions. Because of this, there may be some difficulty in giving or receiving affection.

Queen Elizabeth 1, Charles Dickens, Oscar Wilde, Sir Isaac Newton, William Wordsworth and Billy Graham were born under the number 7.

17
Your birth on the 17th day of the month suggests that you are very fortune financially, because this date is very good for business interest and a solid business sense. Although you are probably very honest and ethical, this birthday enables you to be shrewd and successful in the world of business and commercial enterprise. You have excellent organizational, managerial, and administrative capabilities enabling you to handle large projects and significant amounts of money with relative ease. You are ambitious and highly goal-oriented, although you may be better at starting projects than you are at finishing them. A sensitivity in your nature, often repressed below the surface of awareness, makes it hard to give or receive affection.

George Bernadshaw, Sir Humphry Davy, Christian Bernard, Elizabeth Taylor were born under the number 8.

18
Your birthday on the 18th day of the month suggests than you are one who can work well with a group, but still remain someone who needs to maintain individual identity. There is a humanistic or philanthropic approach to business circumstances in which you find yourself. You may have good executive abilities, as you are very much the organizer and administrator. You are broad-minded, tolerant and generous, a compassionate person that can inspire others with imaginative ideas. Some of your feelings may be expressed, but even more of them are apt to be repressed. There is a lot of drama in your personality and in the way you express yourself to others.

Theodore Roosevelt, Greta Garbo, Richard Nixon, George Stephenson were born under the number 9.

19
A birthday on the 19th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach; but with this, a somewhat self-centered approach to life that may be in conflict with some of the other influences in your life. This 1 energy may diminish your ability and desire to handle details, preferring instead to paint with a broad brush. You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed. You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations. You do not tend to follow convention or take advice very well. Consequently, you tend to learn through experience; sometimes hard experiences. The 19/1 is a loner number and you may experience feelings of being alone even if you are married. You may take on a tendency to be nervous and anger more easily.

Did you know that Bismarch ,Alexander the Great, Annie Besant , Captain Cook and Ferdinand De Lesseps were born under the number 1?

20
Your birth on the 20th day of the month adds a degree of emotion, sensitivity, and intuition to your readings. The 2 energy provided here is very social, allowing you to make friends easily and quickly. Yet you are apt to have a rather nervous air in the company of a large group. You have a warmhearted nature and emotional understanding that constantly seeks affection. You are very prone to become depressed and moody, as emotions can turn inward and cause anxiety and mental turmoil. It can be hard for you to bounce back to reality when depression sets in.

Napolean 111,Edison, Thomas Hardy were born under the number 2.

21
Being born on the 21st day of the month is likely to add a good bit of vitality to your life. The energy of 3 allows you to bounce back rapidly from setbacks, physical or mental. There is a restlessness in your nature, but you seem to be able to portray an easygoing attitude. You have a natural ability to express yourself in public, and you always make a very good impression. Good with words, you excel in writing, speaking, and possibly singing. You are energetic and always a good conversationalist. You have a keen imagination, but you tend to scatter your energies and become involved with too may superficial matters. Your mind is practical and rational despite this tendency to jump about. You are affectionate and loving, but very sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.

Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, Rudyard Kipling, Mark Twain,
Joseph Stalin were born under the number 3.

22
Being born on the 22nd of the month, you are capable of handling large scale undertakings, assuming great responsibility, and working long and hard towards their completion. Often, especially in the early part of life, there is rigidity or stubbornness, and a tendency to repress feelings. Idealistic, you work for the greater good with a good deal of inner strength and charisma. An extremely capable organizer, but likely to paint with broad strokes rather than detail. You are very aware and intuitive. You are subject to a good deal of nervous tension.

George Washington, Lord Byron, Faraday were born under the number 4.

23
With a birthday on the 23rd of the month you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine. You may have a tendency to shirk responsibility. Very sociable, you make friends easily and you are an excellent traveling companion.

Shakespeare, Karl Marx, Neil Armstrong, Eisenhower and Albert
Einstein were born under the number 5.

24
Born on the 24th, you have a greater capacity for responsibility and helping others than may have shown in your life path. You may also become the mediator and peacemaker in inharmonious situations. Devoted to family and friends, you tend to manage and protect. This birth date adds to the emotional nature and perhaps to the sensitivities. Affections are important to you -both the giving and the receiving.

Queen Victoria, Napolean1, Joan of Arc, Warren Hastings and Max
Muller were born under the number 6.

25
Your birth on the 25th day of the month modifies your life path by giving you some special interest in technical, scientific, or other complex and often hard to understand subjects. You may become something of a perfectionist and a stickler for details. Your thinking is logical and intuitive, rational and responsible. Your feelings may run deep, but you are not very likely to let them show. This birthday makes you a more private person, more introspective and perhaps more inflexible. In friendships you are very cautious and reserved. You are probably inventive, and given to unique approaches and solutions.

Queen Elizabeth 1, Charles Dickens, Oscar Wilde, Sir Isaac Newton,
William Wordsworth and Billy Graham were born under the number 7.

26
Your birth on the 26th day of the month modifies your life path by increasing your capability to function and succeed in the business world. In this environment you have the skills to work very well with others thanks to the 2 and 6 energies combining in this date. There is a marked increase in organizational, managerial, and administrative abilities. You are efficient and handle money very well. Ambitious and energetic, while generally remaining cooperative and adaptable.You have a wonderful combination of being good at both the broad strokes and the fine detail. This birthday is practical and realistic, often seeking material satisfaction.

George Bernadshaw, Sir Humphry Davy, Christian Bernard, Elizabeth
Taylor were born under the number 8.

27
Your birth on the 27th day of the month adds a tone of selflessness and humanitarianism to your life path. Certainly, you are one who can work very well with people, but at the same time you need a good bit of time to be by your self to rest and meditate. Regardless of your life path number, there is a very humanistic and philanthropic approach in most of things that you do. This birthday helps you be broadminded, tolerant, generous and very cooperative. You are the type of person who uses persuasion rather than force to achieve your ends. You tend to be very sensitive to others' needs and feelings, and you able to give much in the way of friendship without expecting a lot in return.

Theodore Roosevelt, Greta Garbo, Richard Nixon, George Stephenson
were born under the number 9.

28
Your birth on the 28th day of the month adds a tone of independence and extra energy to your Life Path. The number 1 energy suggest more executive ability and leadership qualities than you path may have indicated. A birthday on the 28th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach. Unlike much of the other 1 energy, this birthday is one that endow with the ability to start a job and continue on until it is finished. You may prefer to use the broad brush, but you can handle details as well. You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed. You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations.

Did you know that Bismarch ,Alexander the Great, Annie Besant , Captain Cook and Ferdinand De Lesseps were born under the number 1?

29
Your birthday on the 29th adds a tone of idealism to your nature. You are imaginative and creative, but rather uncomfortable in the business world. You are very aware and sensitive, with outstanding intuitive skills and analytical abilities. The 29 reduces to 11, one of the master numbers which often produces much nervous tension. This is the birthday of the dreamer rather than the doer. You do, however, work very well with people.

Napolean 111,Edison, Thomas Hardy were born under the number 2.

30
Your birthday on the 30th day of the month shows individual self-expression is necessary for your happiness. You tend to have a good way of expressing yourself with words, certainly in a manner that is clear and understandable. You have a good chance of success in fields requiring skill with words. You can be very dramatic in your presentation and you may be a good actor or a natural mimic. You have a vivid imagination that can assist you in becoming a good writer or story-teller. Strong in your opinions, you always tend to think you are on the right side of an issue.

Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, Rudyard Kipling, Mark Twain,
Joseph Stalin were born under the number 3.

31
Your birthday on the 31st of the month suggests that you are a good organizer and manager, an energetic and dependable worker; attributes often showing success in the business world. Serious and sincere, you have the patience and determination necessary to accomplish a great deal. Your approach can be original, but often rigid and stubborn. Sensitivity may be present, but feeling are likely to be repressed. You are good with detail and insist on accuracy, but at times scatter energies. Practical thinker, but not without imagination. You love travel and don't like to live alone. You should probably marry early, for responsibility is necessary for your stability.

George Washington, Lord Byron, Faraday were born under the number 4.

Significance of Colours in your Life

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RED

You are impulsive, excitable and energetic. You are ambitious and like things to happen quickly when you want them to do so. You like to be the best in everything you do. You may be a bit insensitive to the feelings of the other people, since you like to be the center of attraction.
Learn to be a good listener. Red means vital force, with your nervous activity urging you to achieve results and be successful. If you make a habit of wearing red it may indicate you place importance on sexual desire and eroticism. This energy can be best used in the form of creative endeavor, leadership development and expansion.
You are courageous and extroverted, but tend to become irritable and bad tempered if you do not get your own way. Learn to be patient. Maroon and brick reds show you are fun loving, but be careful not to become resentful and feel victimized by the others.

PINK

You have an affectionate, loving nature, which makes you sympathetic and understanding. You may lack willpower and show weakness when you cannot control affairs of the heart.
You need a great deal of support from others and can be childlike in behavior. You must learn to accept and love yourself. If you become more self-reliant you will attract and give out the feelings of warmth and love you desire.

ORANGE

You are competent, self-oriented and impatient. You are also independent, an organizer and self-motivated. Orange is the colour of practicality and creativity. Your energy levels are high, and you are sometimes restless. You have a forceful will and tend to be active and competitive. You are also excitable and can seek domination over the others.
Bright orange and burnt orange can make you feel frustrated and blocked. Try wearing peach, which will direct your energy to the others in a more caring way.

YELLOW

You have an interesting and stimulating personality. You like to be active and involved in whatever is going on. Lively and vital, you can cope well with life’s challenges.
Bright yellow represents spontaneity and communication. You are active, inspiring and like to investigate. There is a desire and hope of greater happiness, which implies some minor conflict in which release is needed. Yellow presses forward to the new, modern, the developing and uniformed, and drawn in ideas from the "higher mind".

GREEN

You are a cautious person and not inclined to trust others easily. You are an observer in life, but do not wished to get involved more than you have to. A quiet life suits you best. You are benevolent, humanistic and service-orientated.
If you wear blue-green you need a peaceful environment, wishing release from stress, and freedom from conflicts or disagreement. You take pains to control the situation and its problems by proceeding cautiously. You have sensitivity of feeling and a fine eye for detail. Try wearing pale yellow with your green to help you share yourself and develop an optimistic attitude.

LIGHT BLUE

You are creative, perceptive and sensitive. You have a good imagination and practical approach to life. Your approach can be analytical and you are best advised to use your knowledge for problem solving. You like to do things in your own time and not be rushed. You need a secure and peaceful environment.

DARK BLUE

You are intelligent, self-reliant and have a great depth of feeling. You feel responsibility for others and enjoy decision-making. You need tranquility all around you and must be surrounded by tenderness, love and affection. Noisy people disturb you. You may suffer from mental stress owing to the lack of play and relaxation. Try wearing some blue-greens or greens to help your self-expression and improve your health.

VIOLET

Yours is a sensitive, compassionate nature so you can be easily imposed upon and should be careful to pick friends who are as sensitive as you are. To be happy, work where you feel needed. Try wearing lilac or magenta, a colour with more red in it. This will boost your self-confidence and provide your vulnerability with protection.

PURPLE

You are very intuitive and have deep feelings and high aspirations. You are interested in the best of everything, including your friends. Lesser mortals do not interest you or enter into your scheme of things except where necessary.
Watch that you do not become arrogant – try to make more time for listening. Orchid, grape or violet can make you feel imposed upon by others’ belief systems, rules and regulations. Be sensitive to your personal and spiritual needs. Try yoga or meditation to release mind blocks.

WHITE

White contains all the other colours in the spectrum, showing that you have a positive, well-balanced and optimistic personality. You are highly individualistic and a loner. You seek a simplified lifestyle free from outside pressures.
You have chosen a simple and pure colour, but one that reaches out for recognition. You are probably going through a transitional period with new ideas not yet taken form. Be open-minded and communicate, for with white all things are possible.

GRAY

You are very much an individual. Many people may get the impression you are self-sufficient as you have excellent self-control and prefer to remain uninvolved. Those who wear gray have a tendency to isolate themselves, which can lead to loneliness. You may be passive because you feel stressed and overburdened.
You may need rest, relaxation and freedom from daily stress. Maybe you need a good break – take in the blue of the ocean or green of the countryside. People who wear gray are often those who make judgements and may be good critics. Those who lack judgement and struggle to form opinions should wear gray.

BROWN

Brown clothing suggests an honest, down-to-earth person who likes a structured supported lifestyle. A lover of the best things life has to offer, you are a sensuous type, appreciating good food, drink and company. Brown is the colour of Mother Earth.
It is a protective colour, but you may be bottling up emotion or a secret that makes you retreat into your shell and fear the outside world; thus you feel protected by wearing brown or muddy colour. There is a desire to be emotionally secure and accepted by the outside world. You need to understand your self-worth and ward off narrow-mindedness.

BLACK

You are strong-willed, opinionated and disciplined. You may be too inflexible and too independent. Watch out that these are not defense tactics. You may really lack confidence in yourself and your own ability to handle life efficiently. It may be you have a little way to go to maturity and are using black to cloak yourself while you discover your true identity.
Black represents renunciation – the ultimate surrender or relinquishment – and those who choose to wear black constantly want to renounce everything out of a stubborn protest. Wearing black on certain occasions shows you have control in yourself in order to communicate an authoritative image.

Characteristics of my sun-sign

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First of all, let me talk about my sun sign which is Pisces. If you are feeling impatient about yours, please follow this link

Pisces are the most impressionable of the twelve zodiac signs.
Pisces adapt well to their circumstances, both good and bad.

Pisces are socially popular because of their easygoing and likable manner.
When Pisces find the right situations, they are capable of some incredible deeds.
Pisces excel in situations where they can leverage their imaginative and intuitive nature.

Pisces make profound artists of all types because they possess great, vivid imaginations.
Pisces are often scatterbrains:Pisces can be so emotional, needy and intense that they can end up being a real drag to people around them.

Pisces are easily lied to because they so want to believe. No matter how often they are led astray by empty promises, they keep the faith and push on toward their personal ideal. Their dreamy and impractical natures can be a source of distress to those close to them. Being both optimistic and cynical, Pisces find it difficult to make up their minds on any issue.

When Pisces feel rejected or get the blues, they REALLY get the blues. Pisces are easily lured to drugs or alcohol for escape or distraction. Pisces should avoid this for obvious reasons, but particularly because of their highly addictive, compulsive nature.

Pisces can suffer from a general lack of decisiveness and are easily distracted from their objectives. Pisces have a propensity towards depression and restlessness when not feeling fulfilled.
Pisces will go out of their way to help a friend.
They are extremely sensitive and loyal.

They will take a friend's problem and make it their own and suffer with them:This is the weak spot of Pisces but any friend of this zodiac sign should know that although they are attracted to people with severe problems who desperately need help, this actually does more harm.

They might even lose their own identity in your situation.
They need a strong positive friend to make them strong.
Pisces like adventure, new situation and social events.

A Pisces friend will always have something exciting in mind and it is a very fulfilling, long lasting friendship.

Pisces men are the ultimate romantic, the sensitive men who feel with a woman: Pisces male is the ideal zodiac sign for the woman who complains that men are not sensitive enough, this man is!! This man lives in the world of dreams and needs a woman to keep him grounded. He always becomes emotionally attached. He needs a woman who can dominate him, but very subtly. She has to be able to help him steer clear of bad habits and bad thoughts. Pisces men need sensitivity, generosity and compassion, nurture him and he will nurture you back.

Compatibility of the Pisces with other Sun Signs

Pisces & Pisces (Feb 20-Mar 20)
Relationship Rating: 5
Passion: 7
Communication: 3

There is something often mystical about two Pisces together.
Pisces have an incredible capability to love in a universal sense.
When things work out between two Pisces they are almost
inseparable and fulfill each other in ways no other sun sign
combination can. Pisces are very intuitive about others but can
get lost in both their own and others emotions. They also have a
tendency to be unrealistic, avoid responsibility and be self
deceptive. Two Pisces together can result in a very unhealthy
relationship. In this combination it is very important that they
have compatible moons in more stable signs.

Pisces & Aires (Mar 21-Apr 20)
Relationship Rating: 3
Passion: 4
Communication: 4

A love match between Aries and Pisces is hard as they don’t
have a lot in common. Aries is cardinal fire and Pisces is mutable
water. Fire and water tend not to mix well and these two signs
are likely to misunderstand each others personalities and not be
able to fulfill each others needs. Pisces tend to be romantics
and inclined to trust their emotions. Aries, on the other hand,
have little patience for emotions. However, Aries will often
unconsciously use their emotions, especially those of anger and
outrage, to fuel their actions. The Pisces can learn to help the
Aries become more sensitive and in tuned with their emotions,
lending Aries purposeful action. If the two signs can recognize
their differences and treat each other with respect, they can
make quite a team.

Pisces & Taurus (Apr 21-May 21)
Relationship Rating: 7
Passion: 7
Communication: 6

A love match between a Taurus and a Pisces can be very
rewarding for both signs. Taurus is fixed earth and Pisces is
mutable water. Water and earth tend to mix well together.
Although some Taurus come off as gruff and unfeeling, the Pisces
will really bring out the tender side of the Taurus. The two can be
one of the gentlest, affectionate couple around. Problems can
arise if the Taurus does not have a compatible moon sign with the
Pisces. Sometimes the Taurus is just too practical and down to
earth for the dreamy and unrealistic Pisces.

Pisces & Gemini (May 22-Jun 21)
Relationship Rating: 2
Passion: 2
Communication: 4

A Gemini and Pisces love match is unlikely. Gemini is mutable air
and Pisces is mutable water. In astrology they form a natural
square to each other by sign. Squares signify challenges and
conflicts. In this combination the interest in each other is usually
too luke warm to gather the energy and desire to try and over
come any difficulties between them. The two can often have an
instant bond and liking to each other that often fades into active
dislike for each other. This sign combination especially seems to
be capable of hurting each others feelings which leads to feelings
of distrust and suspicion.

Pisces & Cancer (Jun 22-Jul 23)
Relationship Rating: 9
Passion: 8
Communication: 8

A Cancer and a Pisces together tends to make a great love match.
Cancer is cardinal water and Pisces is mutable water. In
astrology these two signs form a natural trine, the most beneficial
aspect in astrology. These two can have a great, enduring love.
Between them there is an intuitive understanding and recognition.
The emotions and feelings of love and passion between them can
reach great heights. Usually the only pitfall in this relationship can
be depending on each other too much and losing their separate
identities. There is also a possibility of losing themselves too
much in each other as to loose touch with reality.

Pisces & Leo (Jul 24-Aug 23)
Relationship Rating: 2
Passion: 2
Communication: 2

These two signs often have trouble interacting together due to lack
of common interests and understanding. Leo is fixed fire and
Pisces is mutable water. Leos are often exuberant while the Pisces
tends towards moodiness. Both characteristics will irritate one
another. When these two do click the Pisces can find a passion in
the Leo to help them steady themselves and also give them an
emotional outlet. Few signs can love and demonstrate that love as
a Pisces can and the Leo will be able to greatly appreciate this.

Pisces & Virgo (Aug 24-Sep 23)
Relationship rating: 5
Passion: 7
Communication: 6

This can be a great pairing. Virgo is earth and Pisces water, but both
are mutable. In the zodiac wheel these two signs are opposite.
Oppositions tend to bring a lot of attraction and these two can feel a
mystical connection to each other. When things work out between
these two signs they will both feel as if they have found their soul
mates. The major problem in this combination is Pisces is ultra
sensitive and moody and the Virgo is critical. There is also a tendency
to drag each other down because both tend to be pessimistic.

Pisces & Libra (Sep 24-Oct 23)
Relationship rating: 2
Passion: 1
Communication: 3

A love match between a Libra and Pisces is unlikely. Libra is
cardinal air and Pisces is mutable water. The two are likely to have
little in common. Pisces are very emotional and introverted. Libra’s
are easy going and really enjoy being around other people. The
Pisces will have a tendency to demand more emotional energy than
the Libra has to give. Both signs are searching for a soul mate but
will rarely find it in each other.

Pisces & Scorpio (Oct 24-Nov 22)
Relationship Rating: 8
Passion: 9
Communication: 7

A Scorpio and Pisces together is usually a great love
match. Both signs are water but Scorpio is fixed and
Pisces is mutable. Scorpio and Pisces both have powerful
emotions and they will recognize this within one another
and respond in kind. The Scorpio tends to help stabilize
the Pisces vulnerability as they realize few signs are as
devoted and protective as a Scorpio can be. In turn the
Pisces gentleness can act as a balm towards the Scorpios
stinging sarcasm and mis trustfulness. This sun sign
combination can strengthen and enrich each other as few
other combinations can.

Pisces & Sagittarius (Nov 23-Dec 21)
Relationship Rating: 1
Passion: 1
Communication: 2

A love match between a Sagittarius and a Pisces is unlikely. Both
signs are mutable but Sagittarius is fire and Pisces is water. Fire
and water rarely mix well together. In the zodiac wheel these two
signs form a natural square, signaling conflicts and challenges.
The emotionality of a Pisces is likely to confuse and aggravate a
Sagittarius. One things these two signs have in common is both
rarely have their feet on the ground. Both Pisces and Sagittarius
are philosophically oriented and they can probably have some
really amazing conversations together. This combination is more
likely to result in friendship than a romantic relationship.

Pisces & Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan 20)
Relationship Rating: 7
Passion: 7
Communication: 8

This is usually a good sun sign combination. Pisces is mutable
water and Capricorn is cardinal earth. While the Capricorn is not
as emotional as the Pisces they can be surprisingly patient and
helpful in dissipating some of the more intense feelings and
insecurities of the Pisces. This is often a relationship of
responsibilities and duty. The Pisces will sense this intuitively and
open up to the Capricorn and the trust between the two will be very
strong. The Pisces will be especially appreciative of the Capricorn
stress while they pursue their ambitions and help them find useful
outlets for it. In a romantic relationship these two signs can love
each other with a simplicity that only strengthens itself over time.

Pisces & Aquarius (Jan 21-Feb 19)
Relationship Rating: 3
Passion: 1
Communication: 2

A love match between Aquarius and Pisces is unlikely. . Pisces is
mutable water and Aquarius is fixed air. Pisces are the most
emotional sign of the zodiac and can go from one emotional
extreme to another. Aquarius is perhaps the least emotional sign of
the zodiac. The lack of emotional energy of an Aquarius is likely to
confuse and aggravate a Pisces. Aquarius respect self control and
ability to reason and this is not strengths most Pisces have.

For all the other Sun-sign combinations, visit http://www.vegaattractions.com/astrology/compatibility/suncompatibility.html

Beginning of the Valentine's Day

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The history of Valentine's Day dates back as early as the fourth century B.C. in the Roman Empire. The holiday was originally set aside to honor Juno, the queen of the god's and goddesses and the goddess of marriage. However, today, Feb. 14 is better known as the day we celebrate St. Valentine.

The tradition actually began in Rome with a festival on the eve of Feb 15, the day, which began the Feast of Lupercalia. At the festival, Roman girls name were put into a jar and then drawn by young Roman men to decide who would be their date for the continuing festival the next day. Sometimes the dates would turn into partnerships that would turn into marriage.

However, the Claudius II was the ruler of Rome at this time and was unpopular due to the bloody wars he fought. Many men ultimately did not sign up to fight because they didn't want to leave their wives and children to fight, so in retaliation, Claudius II banned the festival and marriages.

Most of the Romans disagreed with this decree. However, a priest by the name of St. Valentine began to perform marriages secretly. In a secret, quiet, candlelit room, just St. Valentine and the couple would participate in a marriage ceremony. To his detriment though, St. Valentine was discovered on night by a guard while performing the marriage ceremony, and was thrown into jail where he was sentenced to death.

Many young people, including the daughter of a guard, would visit St. Valentine while he was in jail to lift his spirits. St. Valentine was eventually killed but before he died he wrote the guard's daughter a letter thanking her for her frequent visits. He signed the letter, "Love from your Valentine." Since then, St. Valentine has become known as the "patron saint of lovers", and people all over the world observe the holiday as time to remind themselves of love and friendship.

The tale of Heer Ranjha

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Heer Saleti was an extremely beautiful woman, born into a wealthy Jatt family.Ranjha, also a Jatt, is the youngest of four brothers and lives in the village 'Takht Hazara' by the river Chenab.Being his father's favourite son unlike his brothers who had to toil in the lands, he led a life of ease playing the flute ('Wanjhli'/'Bansuri').After a quarrel with his brothers over land, Ranjha leaves home.It is also believed that Ranjha left his home because his brothers' wives refused to give him food.

Eventually he arrives in Heer's village and falls in love with her. Heer offers Ranjha a job as caretaker of her father's cattle. She becomes mesmerised by the way Ranjha plays his flute and eventually falls in love with him. They meet each other secretly for many years until they are caught by Heer's jealous uncle, Kaido, and her parents Chuchak and Malki. Heer is forced by her family and the local priest or 'mullah' to marry another man called Saida Khera.

Ranjha was heartbroken. He was left to walk the quiet villages on his own until eventually he meets a 'Jogi' (ascetic). After meeting Baba Gorakhnath, the founder of the "Kanphata"(pierced ear) sect of Jogis, at 'Tilla Jogian' (the 'Hill of Ascetics', located 50 miles north of the historic town of Bhera, Sargodha District, Punjab (Pakistan)), Ranjha voluntarily became a Jogi, piercing his ears and renouncing the material world. Reciting the name of the Lord, "Alakh Niranjan", on his travels around Punjab, he eventually finds the village where he is reunited with Heer.

The two return to Heer's village, where Heer's parents agree to their marriage. However, on the wedding day, Heer's jealous uncle Kaido poisons her food so that the wedding will not take place. Hearing this news, Ranjha rushes to aid Heer, but he is too late, as she has already eaten the poison and died. Brokenhearted once again, Ranjha takes the poisoned Laddu (sweet) which Heer has eaten and dies by her side.
Heer and Ranjha are buried in a Punjabi town in Pakistan called Jhang, Punjab. Lovers and others often pay visits to their mausoleum.

The tale of Sohni Mahiwal

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Sohni was the daughter of a potter named Tula, who lived in Gujrat town in the Punjab near the banks of the Chenab.As soon as the 'Surahis' (water pitchers) and mugs came off the wheels, she would draw floral designs on them and transform them into masterpieces of art.

Izzat Biag, a rich trader from Uzbekistan, came to India on business but when he saw the beautiful Sohni, he was completely enchanted. Instead of keeping 'mohars' (gold coins) in his pockets, he roamed around with his pockets full of love. Just to get a glimpse of Sohni, he would end up buying the water pitchers and mugs everyday.

Sohni lost her heart to Izzat Baig. Instead of making floral designs on earthenware, she started building castles of love in her dreams. Izzat Baig sent off his companions to Bukhara. He took up the job of a servant in the house of Tula, Sohni's father. He would even take their buffaloes for grazing. Soon, he came to be known as "Mahiwal"(buffalo herder).

When the people started spreading rumours about the love of Sohni and Mahiwal, without her consent her parents arranged her marriage with another potter.Suddenly, one day his "barat" (marriage party) arrived at the threshold of her house. Sohni was helpless and in a poignant state. Her parents bundled her off in the doli (palanquin), but they could not pack off her love in any doli.

Izzat Baig renounced the world and started living like a "faqir" (hermit) in a small hut across the river. The earth of Sohni’s land was like a dargah (shrine) for him. He had forgotten his own land, his own people and his world. Taking advantage of the darkness of the night, when the world was fast asleep, Sohni would come by the riverside and Izzat Baig would swim across the river to meet her. He would regularly roast a fish and bring it for her. It is said that once, when due to high tide he could not catch a fish, Mahiwal cut a piece of his thigh and roasted it. Seeing the bandage on his thigh, Sohni opened it, saw the wound and cried.

From the next day, Sohni started swimming across the river with the help of an earthen pitcher as Izzat Baig was so badly wounded and could not swim across the river. Soon, the rumours of their romantic rendezvous spread. One-day Sohni’s sister-in-law followed her and saw the hiding place where Sohni used to keep her earthen pitcher among the bushes. The next day, the sister-in-law removed the hard baked pitcher and replaced it with an unbaked one. That night, when Sohni tried to cross the river with the help of the pitcher, it dissolved in the water and Sohni was drowned. From the other side of the river, Mahiwal saw Sohni drowning and jumped into the river and drowned as well.The Tomb Of Sohni In Shahdapur City Sindh, which is 75 km from (Hyderabad). According to the legend the bodies of Sohni Mahiwal were recovered from river Indus near Shahdapur and hence are buried there.

Difference between 'Friends' & 'Real Friends'

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A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about their problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!

A simple friend asks for food.
A real friend brings it along.

A simple friend will greet you with "Hello!"
A real friend will give you a warm hug.

A simple friend will call your parents as Uncle & Aunty.
A real friend will call them as Dad & Mom.

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend cries alongwith you.

A simple friend will eat at your dinner table and leave.
A real friend will spend hours there, talking, laughing and just being together.

A simple friend knows a few things about you.
A real friend could write a book with direct quotes from you.

A simple friend will leave you behind if that's what the crowd is doing.
A real friend will kick the whole crowds' ass that left you.

A simple friend would knock on your door.
A real friend will walk right in and say, "I'm home!".

Simple friends are for a while.
Real friends are for life.

Simple friends will ignore this.
Real friends will forward this.

Difference between 'Friends' & 'Lovers'

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Friends

Friends and lovers
are the ones we give away
into the care of other lives
and other times

You've been my friend and lover
Friend to my warmest thought
Lover to my misdirection
I hold you dear

Some stumbling thoughts
meant for you
Written as well as I can
At least for now

So, stick them in a corner
Drag them out
from time to time
when you wonder where I am

I'll remember you
You'll remember me
Friends and lovers
Never far apart

You remind me of........

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Friendship
You remind me of a flower,
Pretty, inside and outside.
A reason why people smile everyday,
A gift to all.

You remind me of chocolate,
Luscious and sweet.
Someone people can turn to in crisis,
Loved by all.

You remind me of a teddy,
Cute and huggable.
Someone people feel comfortable with,
Special to all.

You remind me of a balloon,
Happy and bouncy.
Someone people can have fun with,
Enjoyed by all.

You remind me of a lot of things,
But nothing can compare to the real person,
A friend I can look up to,
Cherished by me.

- Jenny Yu -

You are.......

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Friendship
You are friendly, kind and caring
Sensitive, loyal and understanding
Humorous, fun, secure and true
Always there... yes that's you.

Special, accepting, exciting and wise
Truthful and helpful, with honest blue eyes
Confiding, forgiving, cheerful and bright
Yes that's you... not one bit of spite.

You're one of a kind, different from others
Generous, charming, but not one that smothers
Optimistic, thoughtful, happy and game
But not just another... in the long chain.

Appreciative, warm and precious like gold
Our friendship won't tarnish or ever grow old
You'll always be there, I know that is true
I'll always be here... always for you.

- Written and owned by Angela Lee Hillsley -

Some of the favourite Sidhuism's

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Kaanton mein reh ke bhi,
Phoolon ki tarah mehahna seekho,
Keechad mein reh ke bhi doston,
Kamal ki tarah khilna seekho,
Jo paristhitiyon se ghabra jaye,
Wo loh purush ho nahin sakta,
Rakh mein reh ke bhi,
Angaron ki tarah dehakna seekho
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Is duniya mein sheron ko bhi azadi hai, sapon ko bhi azadi hai,
Sapon ko azadi hai har baste ghar mein basne ki,
Unke sir mein zehar bhi hai aur aadat bhi hai dasne ki
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Jis ped pe phal lage hote hain, aadmi pathar marta hi usi ko hai,
No one kicks a dead dog
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Andheron ka dard kya jane jo khud sitare hain,
Doobne ki tees kya jane jo khud kinare hain,
Aag ke darya mein doobne ka dard Ganguly se seekho,
Ganguly ne kayi ujde huye gulshan saware hain
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Kabhi bhool se bhi kisi se na karna salook aisa,
Jo koi tumse karta tumhe na gawar hota
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Har deen dukhi man mein umang tumhe bharni hai,
Har aasha heen hridya mein tarang tumhe bharni hai,
Are Mahabharat to Sir har yug ki atal zaroorat hai,
Ban ke Arjun, Sachai ki jang tumhe ladni hai
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Duniya mein sabse bada rog "mere bare mein kya kahenge log?",
Insaan chadphadata hai, are yaar usne mere liye ye keh diya ,
Sari raat so nahin pata hai,
Main kehta hoon ki jo asli achiever banta hai,
Jo zindagi mein apne paon ki chaap chod ke jata hai,
Woh aadmi hai jo apne zehan ko jawabdeyi ho jata hai
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Har kyun ka jawab nahin hota,
Har chehra lajawab to nahin hota,
Are bhanware se ja ke poocho har phool pe baithta hai,
Are har phool gulab to nahin hota
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Bhagwan ki Kripa hai,
Laloo kare kawaliyan Rab sidhiyan pave
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Bulbulon ke pankhon mein bandhe huye kabhi baaz nahin rehte,
Buzdilon aur kayron ke haathon mein kabhi Raj nahin rehte,
Sar jhuka kar chalne ki aadat pad jaye jis insaan ko,
Us insaan ke sar pe kabhi Taj nahin rehte
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Jo bhara nahin hai bhavon se behti jisme rasdhar nahin,
Woh hridya nahin hai pathar hai jisme Swades ka pyar nahin
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As hopeless as a like a one-legged person at a bum kicking competition
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You are so unlucky that if you spend a night in a barrel of nipples,
You will still come out licking your thumb
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As helpless as a midget at a urinal
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Hum aaye nahin hain, Hame bulaya gaya hai,
Jo bina bulaye aate hain wo tsunamni ya tufaan hote hain,
Jo nyote par bulaye jate hain wahi asli mehmaan hote hain
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Between Yesterday's REGRET and Tommorrow's HOPE,
Is Today's OPPORTUNITY
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As you grow older u get better, unless you are a banana
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You got to choose between tightening your belt and losing your pants
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In times of prosperity, remember it’s the fattest pig that goes to the butcher
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The ball whizzes past like a bumblebee and the Indians are in the sea
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The Indians are finding the gaps like a pin in a haystack
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The third umpires should be changed as often as nappies and for the same reason
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There is light at the end of the tunnel for

India

, but it's that of an oncoming train which will run them over
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained. And venture belongs to the adventurous
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One who doesn't throw the dice can never expect to score a six
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Wickets are like wives - you never know which way they will turn
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A revolutionary idea is usually the one with its sleeves rolled up
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If my aunty had been a man she would have been my uncle
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As innocent as freshly laid eggs
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As you grow older u get better unless you are a banana.
Flowing like a rampaging river
As sleek as a Gazelle
Falling like Cycles in a cycle stand
Moving like a meter of an Indian Taxi
If ‘ifs and buts’ were ‘pots and pants’ there would be no tinkers!
MAY BE is not a Honey Bee
It is very difficult to kill a man who is hell-bent on committing suicide.
as dead as a dodo
a desperate man drinks coffee with a fork
If my aunty had been a man she would have been my uncle.
As straight as a ram-rod.
As innocent as freshly laid eggs.
All that comes from a cow is not milk..
Experience is like a comb that life gives you when you are bald
You cannot make Omelets without breaking the eggs.
When you are dining with the demon you've got to have a long spoon!
Anybody can pilot a ship when the sea is calm.
Its not all over till the fat lady sings
As cool as a cucumber, as wily as a fox
A fallen lighthouse is more dangerous than a reef.
You cannot ride a seat less bicycle without getting blisters on your bums
Nobody travels on the road to success without a puncture or two.
If the heavens throw you dates, you got to keep your mouth open.
As crisp as a cracker
Beauty even when silent is eloquent.
You got to choose between tightening your belt and losing your pants.
The cat with gloves catches no mice
You may have a heart of gold, but so does a hard-boiled egg.
Beauty bewitches both the holder and the beholder
Even a turtle won’t move until he sticks his neck out.
Keep still and have thy will
He who wants a full farm must have old cocks with young bulls
The world is a large fruit cake you will always find some nuts in it.
What cannot be cured must be endured
Liquor talks mighty loud when it’s let loose from the jug.
Character is not made in a crisis, it is exhibited.
In times of prosperity, remember it’s the fattest pig that goes to the butcher.
Like a Tuk-Tuk he is having ignition problems
As sweet as tooti frooti
A good lather is half the shave…
Cats on a hot tin roof
Wickets are like wives - you never know which way they will turn!
A revolutionary idea is usually the one with its sleeves rolled up
After marriage, the other man’s wife looks more beautiful.
Age has been perfect fire extinguisher for flaming youth.
As uncomfortable as a bum on a porcupine.
Beware of the naked man who offers you his shirt.
Even a cock crows before his own dung hill
I have seen many ladies displaying different styles and different styles displaying ladies.
It's like the brooding hen sitting over a china egg.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. And venture belongs to the adventurous.
One who doesn't throw the dice can never expect to score a six.
The ball whizzes past like a bumblebee and the Indians are in the sea.
The Indians are finding the gaps like a pin in a haystack.
The third umpires should be changed as often as nappies and for the same reason.
There is light at the end of the tunnel for India, but it's that of an oncoming train which will run them over.
We are all Adam's children - it's just the skin that makes all the difference.
We'll take the cake with the red cherry on top.
You can't play a symphony alone, it takes an orchestra to play it
In the Orchard of opportunity, you cant wait for the fruit to drop
Money is like manure. Its no good unless you spread it!
They are so timid, they wouldn’t say Boo to a goose
Good intentions die unless utilized
Statistics are like miniskirts, they reveal more than what they hide.
Statistics are like bikinis, what they reveal is suggestive, what they hide is essential!
He played that like a dwarf at a urinal.
I lean on statistics like a drunken man leans on a lamppost, only for support, not illumination
To catch a trout, you must be prepared to lose a fly.
He has a back lift like an octopus falling out of a tree, all over the place!
There is always free cheese in a mousetrap
Come to my parlor said the spider to the fly
A dog kennel is no place to hide a sausage
You can never unscramble eggs.
Call the bear uncle until you cross his bridge.
Wallowing in foolishness like a rhinoceros in an African bog.
Gamblers they Are like Toilets BROKE one Day Flush The Next
The only thing you get in life without effort is dandruff.
You may have 40 million reasons for failure, not a single excuse
The real bone of contention is that there cannot be any fruit without a root
I grow daily to honour facts more and more and theory less and less, and facts will not cease to exist just because they are ignored.
It was like an "umbrella without ribs" and "sleeping" on the issue for the last one year.
It was the general proposing and the captain disposing.
Spit on your hands! Take the black flag! And start slitting throats!
The ball went so high it could have got an airhostess on its way down!
This team is like bicycles in a cycle stand… one falls and the entire row falls!
The scoreboard is running faster than an Indian Taximeter!
The batsman is like a three-wheeler. Sucks a lot of fuel, but cannot go beyond 30!
The wily fox is back… it is an ill omen when a fox licks the lambs!
A big outcry but no outcome!
Just because a rose smells sweet, you do not use it in the soup!
Bad habits are like comfy beds - easy to get into, very difficult to get out off.
You aren’t rewarded for having brains, you’re rewarded for using them.
A lemon squeezed too hard yields a bitter juice.
Hope is putting faith to work when doubting would be easier.
Curry is a worry.
To achieve, you have to believe
Success is the fruit of concentration.
Strike when the iron is hot, and make the iron hot by striking.
Strength grows in the garden of patience
Your originality is your strength.
If you enjoy a particular thing, you will always succeed at it
Winning is not important, but wanting to win is.
When you are submerged up to your ears in trouble, try using the part that isn’t submerged.
Faith in your abilities will help you face the music, even if you don’t like the tune.
Penny and penny will make many.
Every dog is a lion at his own door.
Disappointments need to be cremated, not embalmed.
Those openers are like nappies, and changed for the same reason.
A tree is always known by its fruit.
The blood of the soldier gives glory to the general.
Troubles are like babies - the more you nurse them, the bigger they grow.
The first blow is half the battle.
A recession is where you have to tighten your belt. A depression is where you have no belt to tighten. When you have no pants to hold up, it is time to panic.
Next to good judgement, diamonds and pearls are the next rarest thing.
When everything is coming your way, you might just be in the wrong lane of traffic.
It is choice, not chance that determines destiny.
Fine feathers make a fine bird.
Flattery is like chewing gum, you chew it for a while, don’t swallow it - and after a while, spit it out!
Every time a lamb bleats, it loses a mouthful of hay
Judge people by their performance, not by their intentions.
A true professional is like a chameleon - he will change colour to suit his surroundings.
Easy to criticise an egg, difficult to lay one.
Keep feeding your faith until your doubts starves to death.
Experience is the thing you get right after you need it.
When you’re running with the big dogs, you can’t piddle like a puppy.
It is better to pluck the fruit from the tree than wait for it to fall.
You’ve got to put the saddle on the right horse.
Success is a matter of luck and pluck.
Big boast, small roast
The light at the end of the tunnel is nothing but an oncoming train.
The whole world is not cleaned by soft soap.
Good deeds speak for themselves, the tongue only speaks of their eloquence.
Speed has little to do with your progress - it is more to do with direction.
If fate gives you a lemon, make lemonade.
There is a devil in every berry of the grape.
Candy is dandy, but liquor is quicker.
The only thing you can get in a hurry is trouble.
Hope is the elixir of life.
A man who is heading nowhere is sure to reach his destination.
He’s like a tornado - he can really blow you off your feet.
Commonsense is the knack of seeing things as they are and doing things as they need to be done.
A pessimist is one who burns bridges before the enemy gets to them.
He who ceases to praise ceases to prosper.
This is a batsman who is as erratic as the electricity supply in most parts of India.
You can take the tiger out of the jungle, but you can’t take the jungle out of the tiger.
It’s not the early bird that gets the worm, it’s the smart one.
Don’t die until you’re dead.
Patience is the greatest of all shock-absorbers.
Ideas are funny things - they don’t work unless you do.
Some students will drink from the fountain of knowledge - others will simply gargle.
To err is human - but not too often.
If you want your hen to lay, you have to bear the cackling.
You can’t prevent the consequences of your mistakes.
It is tiny droplets of water that make a shower. He’s believing his doubt and doubting his belief.
You always make your own luck.
In life, as in chess, it is foresight which will win.
A small leak can sink a big ship.
His mind is on the boisterous sea of doubt.
A good example is the best sermon you can ever preach.
Talent is nothing if it’s not controlled, harnessed and disciplined.
Failure is a better teacher than success, but it will seldom get an apple.
The weakness of your opposition is your strength.
When you are an anvil, hold yourself still, When you’re a hammer, strike your fill.
They’re trying to make a whistle sound like a trumpet.
The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice, the longer the rope, the tighter the noose.
The world is all about mind and matter; I don't mind and you don't matter.
If one-day cricket was pyjama cricket, then Twenty20 is underwear cricket.
He's shredded that into smithereens
A fifty is like kissing a virgin, you just have to go on!
Comments should be like skirts. Short enough to keep your attention, but long enough to cover the subject
The Sri Lankans are running between the wickets as if their wives are chasing them with a belan.
He is like a fighter plane with the speed of an auto rickshaw.
INDIAN CRICKET IS LIKE INDIAN MONSOON, WHEN IT RAINS IT POURS, OR ELSE THERE IS DROUGHT
Cricket is the game of glorious uncertainties! Glorious-when Sri Lankans play, uncertain-when India plays
In London they drive on the left, in India we drive on what is left
Indians should now be on their toes like midgets at a urinal.
For the Indians now it's 'fight back' or 'flight back'
He flew like a bird and plucked it out of thin air.
Deep Dasgupta is not a Wicket Keeper, he is a goal keeper. He must be given a free transfer to Manchester United.
The Indians are jelling together as a cohesive unit.
Dravid has hit this shot as straight as a candle.
Ajit Agarkar is as fresh as a daisy.
Sourav Ganguly is "The Burden of Calamity"
Indians have certainly erased the tag of tigers at home, pussy cats abroad!
Indian team without Sachin is like giving a Kiss without a Squeeze
New Zealanders have their limits, The kiwis are the birds that cannot fly!
He is a dibbly dobbly bowler
He will fight a rattlesnake and give it the first two bites too.
If only he could learn how to play, he would make a great player!
They will not only come back home with their cup, but with the opposition's cherries as well
Eddie Nichols is a man who cannot find his own buttocks with his two hands.
He has thrown him to the wolves
He opened him like a can of beans
We are all Adam's children — it's just the silk that makes all the difference!
Right now he's looking like a Cheshire cat that's had loads of cream!
He is flowing like a river - simply unstoppable!
Great feathers make great birds!
My idea of a bird is 36-24-36.
A girl born beautiful is half married
A fly in the soup’s better than no meat at all.
Flaming youth cooks its own goose.
Strong men and waterfalls channel their own paths.
No one reads a book to reach the middle. Ending is the most important part of the story.
There is no point in aiming at the target if you are loaded with blanks.
God is always on the side of the heavier battalion.
It is always difficult to dance on a crooked floor.
Small leaks can sink large ships.
They are like a “golden drum” which makes a lot of noise but was hollow inside.
Ganguly has thrown a drowning man both ends of the rope
Deep Dasgupta is as confused as a child is in a topless bar!
He is like a one-legged man in a bum kicking competition.
Kumble's bowling at the moment is flat as a Dosa
I am a sepoy and will follow the guidance of my leaders.
As a rule man is a fool, when it’s hot he wants it cool, and when it’s cool he wants it hot, Always wants what is not!
Warne is a victim of his own success. He has taken to women the way an ostrich takes to the skies.
This bowler bowls so slow that the batsmen have enough time to call home and talk to their wives between every delivery
Pitches are like husband!!! They keep slowing down!!!
His slower ball was so slow that my mama can run faster than that
His footwork is like a car in a traffic jam
The ball missed the bat like a kiss in a hindi movie
He is a constipated batsman/bowler, puts in a lot of effort and has very little results to show for in the end.
Sachin Tendular drives the ball faster than Michael Schumacher's Ferrari.
Ever since he started endorsing for Ferrari, his batting has gone into 7th gear
A dead man is no good to the Society. A dead man's family is also no good to the society
When you fall on your back side the only place you can look is up
I don’t trust the Indian batting, they can snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.
The trouble with Father Time is that it did not even wait for a woman
One Day Cricket is like a pyjama; every one fits into it.
If you sow the wind you reap the whirlwind.
Rusty brains don’t squeak
Don't open your old umbrella and run it over your shoulder.
Only one man in a thousand is the leader of men, rest 999 follow the women
Blondes read OIL as 710
You don’t judge the Horse-power of a vehicle by the size of its exhaust.
Kenya in South Africa was like a mountain having labor pains.
India looks like a crippled cobra whose fangs are clipped.
He is racing with me, in my spanking new car, on his old bike which has lost its chain.(He ain't going any where).He started at the bottom and is still there.
Give them a long rope and they will hang themselves from it.
If there is no difference of opinion, there will be no horse race
When you can kiss the mistress, never kiss the maid!!!!
"Mad dogs keep barking at the elephant, but the king elephant does not bother about them at all."
New burdens are always heavy when everybody lifts
You are your own doctor in curing your cold -feet.
Thoughts are the real interpreters of your actions.
Faith in your abilities, that’s got to do wonders for you.
There are 2 things to which you've got 2 surrender; one is the weather and the other your wife.
The hands that carry the wound should also carry its cure.
Fear is the dark-room where negatives develop.
It does not take much 2 do things,but it takes a lot 2 decide what 2 do.
We must prove that it's skill and not strength that governs its ship
It is better 2 have talent and use it well rather than 2 have it in abundance and squander it.
Honour is the spur that pricks the princely mind.
Past is bucket full of ashes
Washing coal with a soap will do nothing for u.
Take pride out of man and he is like an umbrella without the ribs.
Calamity is the touchstone 2 a brave mind.
Experience is a hard teacher, it gives u the test first and then the lesson.
It takes very little strength to do things, but it takes a lot 2 decide what 2 do.
Nothing great was ever achieved without an act of decision.
The past is the best prophet for the future.
A Sailor has a wife on every port.
Defeats need to be cremated and not embalmed.
An optimist is a person who calls bullshit a fertilizer.
As happy as a Lark.

1. That ball went so high it could have got an air hostess down with it.
2. There is light at the end of the tunnel for India, but it's that of an incoming train which will run them over.
3. Experience is like a comb that life gives you when you are bald.
4. This quote was made after Ganguly called Dravid for a run and midway sent him back and Dravid was runout in the third test against the West Indies at Barbados."Ganguly has thrown a drowning man both ends of the rope."
5. Sri Lankan score is running like an Indian taxi meter.
6. Statistics are like miniskirts, they reveal more than what they hide.
7. Wickets are like wives - you never know which way they will turn!
8. He is like Indian three-wheeler which will suck a lot of diesel but cannot go beyond 30!
9. The Indians are going to beat the Kiwis! Let me tell you, my friend, that the Kiwi is the only bird in the whole world which does not have wings!
10. As uncomfortable as a bum on a porcupine.
11. The ball whizzes past like a bumble bee and the Indians are in the sea.
12. The Indians are finding the gaps like a pin in a haystack.
13. The pitch is as dead as a dodo.
14. Deep Dasgupta is as confused as a child is in a topless bar!
15. The way Indian wickets are falling reminds of the cycle stand at Rajendra Talkies in Patiala...one falls and everything else falls!
16. Indian team without Sachin is like giving a Kiss without a Squeeze.
17. You cannot make Omelets without breaking the eggs.
18. Deep Dasgupta is not a Wicket Keeper, he is a goal keeper. He must be given a free transfer to Manchester United.
19. He will fight a rattlesnake and give it the first two bites too.
20. One, who doesn't throw the dice, can never expect to score a six.
21. This was uttered after Eddie Nichols, the third umpire, ruled Shivnarine Chanderpaul 'NOT OUT' in the second test at Port of Spain, T&T. "Eddie Nichols is a man who cannot find his own buttocks with his two hands."
22. Anybody can pilot a ship when the sea is calm.
23. Nobody travels on the road to success without a puncture or two.
24. You got to choose between tightening your belt or losing your pants.
25. The cat with gloves catches no mice.
26. Age has been perfect fire extinguisher for flaming youth.
27. You may have a heart of gold, but so does a hard-boiled egg.
28. He is like a one-legged man in a bum kicking competition.
29. The third umpires should be changed as often as nappies and for the same reason

Fattest pigs go to the butcher first."

"You don't kill a man who is hell-bent on committing suicide"

'In the orchard of opportunity, you can't wait for the fruit to drop'.

According to Navjot, Sourav Ganguly is "The Burden of Calamity"

"Money is like manure. Its no good unless you spread it!" (Talking about the distribution of money in the Indian cricket team)

"They are so timid, they wouldn't say boo to a goose!" (Talking about the tail of the Indian batting order)

Good intentions die unless utilized

"Statistics are like bikinis… what they reveal is suggestive, what they hide is essential!"

One comment he made that they picked up in the papers over here was regarding a shot Tendulker played off his toes... "he played that like a dwarf at a urinal"...

I lean on statistics like a drunken man leans on a lamppost, only for support, not illumination

When Dravid nicked Bond through the slips for 4 from a full half volley, Sidhu said....... that's Ok from Bond, in order to catch a trout you must be prepared to lose a fly

He has a backlift like an octopus falling out of a tree, all over the place!

There is always free cheese in a mousetrap

Come to my parlour said the spider to the fly

A dog kennel is no place to hide a sausage

You can never unscramble eggs

Call the bear uncle until you are safely across the bridge

"He's wallowing in foolishness like a rhino in an African pool."

Gamblers they Are like Toilets BROKE one Day Flush The Next (Navjot Sidhu Talks About The decision To Bring On Harbhajan Singh Into The attack During The 1st Test In Wellington New Zealand)

The Only Thing You Get In Life Without Trying is dandruff

Hope & Patience Always Win

2007-09-04T23:15:00.002+05:30

Probably the greatest example of persistence is Abraham Lincoln. If you want to learn about somebody who didn't quit, look no further.
Born into poverty, Lincoln was faced with defeat throughout his life. He lost eight elections, twice failed in business and suffered a nervous breakdown.
He could have quit many times - but he didn't and he became one of the greatest presidents in America's history.
Lincoln was a champion and he never gave up.

Here is a sketch of Lincoln's road to the White House:

    * 1816 His family was forced out of their home. He had to work to support them.
    * 1818 His mother died.
    * 1831 Failed in business.
    * 1832 Ran for state legislature - lost.
    * 1832 Also lost his job - wanted to go to law school but couldn't get in.
    * 1833 Borrowed some money from a friend to begin a business and by the end of he year he was bankrupt. He spent the next 17 years of his life paying off this debt.
    * 1834 Ran for state legislature again - won.
    * 1835 Was engaged to be married, sweetheart died and his heart was broken.
    * 1836 Had a total nervous breakdown and was in bed for six months.
    * 1838 Sought to become speaker of the state legislature - defeated.
    * 1840 Sought to become elector - defeated.
    * 1843 Ran for Congress - lost.
    * 1846 Ran for Congress again - this time he won - went to Washington and did a good job.
    * 1848 Ran for re-election to Congress - lost.
    * 1849 Sought the job of land officer in his home state - rejected.
    * 1854 Ran for Senate of the United States - lost.
    * 1856 Sought the Vice-Presidential nomination at his party's national convention - get less than 100 votes.
    * 1858 Ran for U.S. Senate again - again he lost.
    * 1860 Elected president of the United States.

Failure means What ?

2007-09-04T23:13:00.001+05:30

Failure

Failure doesn't mean you are a failure..
It does mean you haven't succeeded yet.

Failure doesn't mean you have accomplished nothing..
It does mean you have learned something.

Failure doesn't mean you have been a fool
It does mean you had a lot of faith.

Failure doesn't mean you have been disgraced.
It does mean you are willing to try.

Failure doesn't mean you don't have it.
It does mean you have to do something in a different way.

Failure doesn't mean you are inferior
It does mean you are not perfect.

Failure doesn't mean you have wasted your time..
It does mean you have a reason to start afresh.

Failure doesn't mean you should give up..
It does mean you must try harder.

Failure doesn't mean you'll never make it.
It does mean it will take a little longer.

Failure doesn't mean God has abandoned you
It does mean God has a better idea.

Quotable Quotes

2007-09-04T23:10:00.000+05:30

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return,

But what is more painful is to love someone

and never find the courage

to let that person know

how you feel.

**********

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone

who means a lot to you,

only to find out in the end that it was

never meant to be and you just have to let go.

**********

3. The best kind of friend

is the kind you can sit on a porch

swing with, never say a word, and then walk

away feeling like it was the best conversation

you've ever had.

**********

4. It's true that we don't know what

we've got until we lose it, but

it's also true that we don't know what we've

been missing until it arrives.

**********

5. It takes only a minute

to get a crush on someone, an hour to

like someone, and a day to love someone-but it

takes a lifetime to forget that someone.

**********

6. Don't go for looks; they can deceive.

Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile because it

Takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

**********

7. Dream what you want to dream;

Go where you want to go;

Be what you want to be, because you have only

One life and one chance to do all the things you

Want to do.

**********

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If

you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the

person too.

**********

9. A careless word may kindle strife;

A cruel word may wreck a life;

A timely word may level stress;

A loving word may heal and bless.

**********

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have

The best of everything

They just make the most of everything

That comes along their way.

**********

11.When you were born, you were crying and everyone

around you was smiling.

Live your life so that when you die,

you're the one smiling and everyone around you is

crying.

********

Friendship Explained in English Language Character Set

2007-08-16T21:18:00.000+05:30

GOOD FRIEND:-
(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elives in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you(even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over
(J)ust "be"without you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
(O)ffer support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets yours fears
(R)aises your spirits
(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you
(W)alks beside you
(X)-plains thing you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality..........

Jai Hind

2007-08-15T21:53:00.000+05:30

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внααяαт нυмкσ נααи ѕє ρуααяα нαι
נαвѕє иуααяα gυℓιѕтααи нαмαяα нαι
внααяαт нυмкσ נααи ѕє ρуααяα нαι
נαвѕє иуααяα gυℓιѕтααи нαмαяα нαι
ѕα∂ιуσи ѕє внααяαт внσσмι ∂υиιуα
кι ѕнααи нαι
внααяαт мαα кι яαкѕнα мєιи נєєωαи
кυявααи нαι
внααяαт нυмкσ נααи ѕє ρуααяα нαι
נαвѕє иуααяα gυℓιѕтααи нαмαяα нαι

υנα∂є иαнιи αρиα ¢нαмαи
тσσтє иαнιи αρиα ναтαи
мαи∂ιя уαнαи
мαѕנι∂ уαнαи
нιи∂υ уαнαи
мυѕℓιм уαнαи
мιℓкє яαнєιи нυм ρуααя ѕє
נααgσ

нιи∂υѕтαиι иααм нαмαяα нαι
ѕαвѕє ρуααяα ∂єѕн нαмαяα нαι
נαимвнσσмι нαι нαмαяι ѕнααи ѕє
кαнєиgє нυм
ѕαв нι тσ внαι внαι ρуααя ѕє
яαнєиgє нυм
нιи∂υѕтαиι иααм нαмαяα нαι
ѕαвѕє ρуααяα ∂єѕн нαмαяα нαι

αѕѕαм ѕє gυנαяαт тαк
вєиgαℓ ѕє мαнαяαѕнтяα тαк
נααтι кαι нυм єк нαιи
внααѕнα кαι ѕυя єк нαι
кαѕнмιя ѕє мα∂яαѕ тαк
кєн ∂σ ѕαвнι нυм єк нαιи
ααωααz ∂σ нυм єк нαιи
נααgσ .

Friendship is Precious because.........

2007-08-12T13:47:00.002+05:30

Friendship is precious! ••••••♣₪♣

♣ not only in the shade,
♣ but in the sunshine of life;
♣ and thanks to a benevolent
♣ arrangement of things,
♣ the greater part of life is sunshine.
♣ Of all the blossoms in life's garden,
♣ friendship is the most fragrant
♣ A friend is a gift where
♣ worth cannot be measured
♣ except by the heart
♣ Be full of sympathy toward each other,
♣ loving one another with tender hearts
♣ and humble minds
♣ Friendship is sharing openly,
♣ laughing often,
♣ trusting always,
♣ caring deeply
♣ We can pour our heart out to a friend
♣ knowing that gentle hands will take and sift it,
♣ keep what is worth keeping,
♣ and with a breath of kindness,
♣ blow the rest away
♣ Thank YOU for being my friend ••••••♣

Friendship Orkut Scrap

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HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!!!!!!!!

Friendship Orkut Scrap

2007-08-12T13:45:00.001+05:30

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Friendship Means.......

2007-08-12T13:43:00.000+05:30

FRIENDSHIP MEAN BEAUTY OF A HUMAN

FRIENDSHIP MEAN LIKE GOLDS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN FRESH FLOWER

FRIENDSHIP MEAN FEELING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN HAPPINESS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN PLEASED

FRIENDSHIP MEAN SHARING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN THINKING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN SUGGESTION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN CONNECTION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN WASTING TIME

FRIENDSHIP MEAN KILLER OF LIFE

FRIENDSHIP MEAN TEASING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN JOKING

FRIENDSHIP MEAN GOOD RELATIONSHIP

FRIENDSHIP MEAN GOOD PARTNER

FRIENDSHIP MEAN CALLING IN A SAVIOR CONDITION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN LEAVING IN A SAVIOR CONDITION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN LIVING IN A GOOD CONDITION

FRIENDSHIP MEAN TIME PASS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN INVESTIGATE

FRIENDSHIP MEANS A PART OF LIFE

FRIENDSHIP MEANS A NICE THING

FRIENDSHIP MEANS A RIVER

FRIENDSHIP MEAN WINDS

FRIENDSHIP MEAN Reply

Friendship Orkut Scrap

2007-08-12T13:42:00.001+05:30

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I AM THE LUCKIEST

Some Friends are.......

2007-08-10T19:02:00.001+05:30

Some friends are like a Flower
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and when they finally bloom
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in just one day
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and some times just by noon
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Some friends are like a cloudy day
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and when the sun's in sight
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it gets blocked by the grayest cloud
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and day turns into night
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and with the slightest breeze
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and float away with ease
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I know i have a Friend like that and YES
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that friend is you !!!!!
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U R very caring n hvng a beautiful heart

Friendship Orkut Scrap

2007-08-07T22:47:00.000+05:30

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Colours in Life

2007-08-06T22:39:00.001+05:30

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Life wud be so dull and boring if the nature didnt have any colours.

Our life too has different colours of ....
"Happiness & Joy"
"Fire & Passion"
"Love & Friendship"
"Sadness, Tears & Lonliness"
"Succes & Failure"
"Aim & Goal"
"Dreams"
"All the Emotions & Mood of Life"

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Life is gr8 big canvas
Throw all the paint U can at it...
..BRIGHT Colour are the Morning,
DARK Colour are the Night...,
...SEVEN Days gives Seven Colours,

May RAINBOW Color be ur Life...

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Short & Sweet Q & A

2007-07-29T17:36:00.000+05:30

Girlfriend: And are you sure you love me and no one else?
Boyfriend: Dead Sure! I checked the whole list again yesterday

Waiter: Would you like your coffee black?
Customer: What other colors do you have?

Manager: Sorry, but i can't give u a job. I don't need much help.
Job Applicant: That's all right. In fact I'm just the right person in this case. You
see, I won't be of much help anyway!!

Dad: Son, what do u want for ur birthday?
Son: Not much dad, Just a radio with a sports car around it.

Diner: I can't eat such a rotten chicken. Call the manager!
Waiter: It's no use. He won't eat it either.

Diner: You'll drive me to my grave!
Waiter: Well, you don't expect to walk there, do you?

Husband: U know, wife, our son got his brain from me.
Wife: I think he did, I've still got mine with me!

Man: Officer! There's a bomb in my garden!
Officer: Don't worry. If no one claims it within three days, you can keep it.

Father: Your teacher says she finds it impossible to teach you anything!
Son: That's why I say she's no good!

Boy : May I hold your hand?
Girl : No thanks, it isn't heavy.

Girl : Say you love me! Say you love me!
Boy : You love me...

Girl : If we become engaged will you give me a ring??
Boy : Sure, what's your phone number??

Girl : I think the poorest people are the happiest.
Boy : Then marry me and we'll be the happiest couple

Girl : Darling, I want to dance like this forever.
Boy : Don't you ever want to improve??

Boy : I love you and I could die for you!
Girl : How soon??

Boy : I would go to the end of the world for you!
Girl : Yes, but would you stay there??

Sharon : Have you ever had a hot passionate, burning kiss??
Tracy : I did once. He'd forgotten to take the cigarette out of his mouth.

Man : You remind me of the sea.
Woman : Because I'm wild, romantic and exciting?
Man : NO, because you make me sick

1. At the movies: When you meet acquaintances/friends...

Stupid Question:-
Hey, what are you doing here?
Answer:-
Don't u know, I sell tickets in black over here..

2. In the bus: A heavy lady wearing pointed high-heeled shoes steps on your feet...
Stupid Question:-
Sorry, did that hurt?
Answer:-
No, not at all, I'm on local anesthesia.....why don't you try again.

3. At a funeral: One of the teary-eyed people ask...
Stupid Question:-
Why, why him, of all people?
Answer:-
Why? Would it rather have been you?

4. At a restaurant: When you ask the waiter
Stupid Question:-
Is the "Butter Paneer Masala" dish good?
Answer:-
No, its terrible and made of adulterated cement. We occassionaly also spit in it.

5. At a family get-together: When some distant aunt meets you after years...
Stupid Question:-
Munna, Chickoo, you've become so big!
Answer:-
Well you haven't particularly shrunk yourself.

6. When a friend announces her wedding, and you ask...
Stupid Question:-
Is the guy you're marrying good?
Answer:-
No,he's a miserable wife-beating , insensitive lout...it's just the money.

7. When you get woken up at midnight by a phone call...
Stupid Question:-
Sorry. were you sleeping?
Answer:-
No. I was doing research on whether the Zulu tribes in Africa marry or
not. You thought I was sleeping....you dumb witted moron.

8. When you see a friend/colleague with evidently shorter hair...
Stupid Question:-
Hey have you had a haircut?
Answer:-
No, its autumn and I'm shedding......

9. At the dentist when he's sticking pointed objects in your mouth...
Stupid Question:-
Tell me if it hurts?
Answer:-
No it wont. It will just bleed.

10. You are smoking a cigarette and a cute woman asks...
Stupid Question:-
Oh, so you smoke.
Answer:-
Gosh, it's a miracle .......it was a piece of chalk and now it's in flames!!!

HE: I'm a photographer I've been looking for a face like yours!
SHE: I'm a plastic surgeon. I've been looking for a face like
yours!!

HE: May I have the pleasure of this dance?
SHE: No, I'd like to have some pleasure too!!!

HE: How did you get to be so beautiful?
SHE: I must have been given your share!!!

HE: Will you come out with me this Saturday?
SHE: Sorry! I'm having a headache this weekend!!!

HE: Go on, don't be shy. Ask me out!
SHE: Okay, get out!!!

HE: I think I could make you very happy
SHE: Why? Are you leaving?

HE: What would you say if I asked u to marry me?
SHE: Nothing. I can't talk and laugh at the same time!!!

HE: Can I have your name?
SHE: Why, don't you already have one?

HE: Shall we go and see a film?
SHE: I've already seen it!!!

HE: Do you think it was fate that brought us together?
SHE: Nah, it was plain bad luck!!!

HE: Where have you been all my life?
SHE: Hiding from you.

Be Like This(Hindi)

2007-07-29T17:32:00.000+05:30

रहो जमीं पे, मगर आसमां का ख्वाब रखो,
तुम अपनी सोच को हर वक्त लाजवाब रखो.

खड़े न हो सको इतना न सर झुकाओ कभी,
तुम अपने हाथ में किरदार की किताब रखो.

उभर रहा जो सूरज, तो धूप निकलेगी
उजालों में रहो, मत धुंध का हिसाब रखो.

मिले तो ऐसे कि कोई न भूल पाये तुम्हें
महक वंफा की रखो और बेहिसाब रखो.

अक्लमंदों में रहो तो अक्लमंदों की तरह
और नादानों में रहना हो रहो नादान से.

वो जो कल था और अपना भी नहीं था दोस्तों
आज को लेकिन सजा लो एक नयी पहचान से.

Meaning of a Kiss

2007-07-29T17:26:00.000+05:30

What every kiss means :

~Kiss on the stomach = I'm ready
~Kiss on the Forehead = I hope we're together forever
~Kiss on the Ear = Your my everything
~Kiss on the Cheek = You look so cute
~Kiss on the Hand = I adore you
~Kiss on the Neck = We belong together
~Kiss on the Shoulder = I want you
~Kiss on the Lips = I love you

What the gesture means...

~Holding Hands = We definitely like each other
~Slap on the butt = That's mine
~Holding on tight = I don't want to let go
~Looking into each other's Eyes = I just plain love you
~Playing with Hair = Tell me you love me
~Arms around the Waist = I love you too much to let go
~Laughing while Kissing = I am completely comfortable with you

***Advice***

Dont ask for a kiss, take one.
If you were thinking about someone while reading this,

you're definitely in Love.

(Definitely not a creation of mine, pasted from somewhere else ofcourse)

Titanic song in Orkut mood

2007-07-29T17:11:00.000+05:30

Every time in my orkut
I see you. I scrap you.
That is how I know you go on.
Far across the Scrap Book
And testimonials between us
You have come to show yourself " single".
Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the friends list does go on
Once more you logged on
And you're here in my scrap book
And my scrap book will go on and on
Testimonials can touch us one time
And last for sometime
And never let go till we're friends
Love was when I saw your friends list
One true time I hold to
In my life I'll surely view her/his profile
Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the friends list does go on
Once more you logged on
And you're here in my scrap book
And my scrap book will go on and on
There is some amazing profile that will not
go away
You're here, there's so much to fear,
And I know that my friend will know I checked her/him out
We'll stay forever this way
You are safe in my friends list
And my friends list will go on

What is the height of.......

2007-07-29T17:08:00.000+05:30

1. What is height of Fashion?
Dhoti with a zip

2. What is height of Secrecy?
Offering blank visiting cards.

3. What is height of Active-laziness?
Asking for a lift to house while on a morning walk.

4. What is height of Laziness?
Adopting a child.

5. What is height of Craziness?
Getting a blank paper Xeroxed.

6. What is height of Forget-fulness?
Seeing the mirror and trying to recollect when you saw him / her last.

7. What is height of Stupidity?
A man looking through a keyhole of a glass door.

8. What is height of Honesty?
A pregnant woman taking one and a half ticket.

9. What is height of Suicide?
A dwarf jumping from the footpath on the road.

10. What is height of De-hydration?
A cow giving milk powder.

May God bless you

2007-07-29T17:05:00.000+05:30

May God make your year a happy one!

Not by shielding you from all sorrows and pain,
But by strengthening you to bear it, as it comes;

Not by making your path easy,
But by making you sturdy to travel any path;

Not by taking hardships from you,
But by taking fear from your heart;

Not by granting you unbroken sunshine,
But by keeping your face bright, even in the shadows;

Not by making your life always pleasant,
But by showing you when people and their causes need you most,
And by making you anxious to be there to help.

God's love, peace, hope and joy to you for the year ahead.

Never loose your Friend

2007-07-29T17:03:00.000+05:30

Around the corner I have a friend,
In this great city that has no end,

Yet the days go by and weeks rush on,

And before I know it,

a year is gone.

And I never see my old friends face,

For life is a swift and terrible race,

He knows I like him just as well,

As in the days when I rang his bell.

And he rang mine if we were younger then,

And now we are busy, tired men.

Tired of playing a foolish game,

Tired of trying to make a name.

"Tomorrow" I say! "I will call on Jim"

"Just to show that I'm thinking of him."

But tomorrow comes and tomorrow goes,

And distance between us grows and grows.

Around the corner! yet miles away,

"Here's a telegram sir" "Jim died today."

And that's what we get and deserve in the end.

Around the corner, a vanished friend.

Remember to always say what you mean.

If you love or like someone, tell them.

Don't be afraid to express yourself.

Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you.

Because when you decide that it,

is the right time it might be too late.

Seize the day. Never have regrets.

And most importantly, stay

close to your friends and family,

for they have helped make you

the person that you are today.

Try to learn something from your Eyes

2007-07-29T16:55:00.000+05:30

They blink together,
They move together,
They cry together,
They see things together
They sleep together

BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER...

That's what friendship really is !!

If I called you and asked you to pick me up because something happened.... would you come?
If I had one day left to live my life... would you be part of my last day?

If I needed a shoulder to cry on.... would you give me yours?

13 Signs of Falling in Love

2007-07-29T16:53:00.000+05:30

13. When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang Up...but you miss them already when it was just two minutes ago

12. You read their texts over and over again...

11. You walk really slowly when you're with them...

10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...

9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...

8 . You smile when you hear their voice...

7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around You...All you see is him/her...

6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...

5. They become ALL you think about...

4. You get high just from their scent...

3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think About them...

2. You would do anything for them...

1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole Time.....

The value of your friend

2007-07-29T16:42:00.000+05:30

What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be
there?

What would you do if for every moment you were truly happy there would
be 10 moments of sadness?

What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got
to tell them how you felt?

So, I just wanted to say, even if I never talk to you again in my life,
you are special to me and you have made a difference i n my life.

I look up to you, respect you, and truly cherish you.

Send this to all your friends, no matter how often you talk, or how
close you are, and send it to the person who sent it to you.

Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them, and tell new friends
you never will.

Remember, everyone needs a friend, someday you might feel like you have
NO FRIENDS at all, just remember this e-mail and take comfort in
knowing somebody out there cares about you and always will.

I'll Always Be There

In times of trouble,

In times of need,

If you are feeling SAD,

You can count on me.

I will give you a wink,

Until you smile,

give you a hug,

And stand by your side.

I'll be there for you till the end,

I'll always and forever, be your friend!

Don't hesitate in initiating a conversation

2007-07-29T16:39:00.002+05:30

Both Friends will think the other is busy
And will not contact thinking it may be disturbing.

As time passes both will think let the other contact.
After that each will think why should I contact first?

Here UR love will be converted to HATE.
Finally without contact the memory becomes weak.

They forget each other.
One fine Day, they will meet and blame each another.

So Keep in touch with all your Friends.
And Pass this to all your Friends.

I don't want to be one of this Kind.
So here I am to say you

Take Care

Keep in Touch Always

Keep your tongue always under control

2007-07-29T16:39:00.001+05:30

I've heard it said don't go to bed
while hanging on to sorrow,
you may not have the chance to laugh
with those you love tomorrow.

You may not mean the words you speak
when anger takes its toll,
you may regret your actions
once you've lost your self-control.

When you've lost your temper
and you've said some hurtful things,
think about the heartache
that your actions sometime bring.

You'll never get those moments back,
such precious time to waste,
and all because of things you said
in anger and in haste.

So if you're loving someone
and your pride has settled in,
you may not ever have the chance
to say to them again...

"I love you and I miss you
and although we don't agree,
I'll try to see your point of view,
please do the same for me."

Movies in the world of IT

2007-07-16T11:16:00.000+05:30

IF BILL GATES START MAKING FILMS IN BOLLYWOOD, NAMES WOULD BE ::

1. Hang To Hona Hi Tha !!!!!!!!!!!!
2. Meri Disc Tumhare Paas Hai
3. Aao Chat Kare
4. Programmer No.1
5. Mera Naam Developer
6. Java Wale Job Le Jayenge
7. Hum Apke Memory Mein Rehte Hein
8. Do Processor Baarah Terminal
9. Tera Code Chal Gaya
10. Har Din Jo Mail Karega
11. Network Ke Us Paar
12. Debugging Koi Khel Nahi
13. Jish Desh Mein Bill Gates Rehta Hai
14. Raju Ban Gaya MCSE .!
15. Client Ek Numbari Programmer Dus Numbari
16. Login Karo Sajana
18. Naukar PC Ka
19. 1942 -- A Bug Story
20. Kaho Na Virus Hai
21. Crash Se Crash Tak
22. Haan Maine Bhi Debug Kiya Hai
23. Password De Ke Dekho
24. Terminal Apna Login Parayi

Magic Tricks Using Maths

2007-07-15T00:58:00.000+05:30

The world of magic on the face of it seems very distant from the logical precise, predictable world of mathematics.

Yet many of the greatest magic tricks ever seen rely heavily on maths to make them work. In this section we explore some of the best tricks so that you can amaze your friends.

Recurring Number Magic

Effect
You write down the following 8 digit number on a piece of paper:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 9

Then ask a friend to circle one of the digits. Say that they circle number 7.

You then ask your friend to multiply the 8 digit number by 63, and magically the result ends up being:

   1 2 3 4 5 6 7 9
x                     6 3
7 7 7 7 7 7 7 7 7

with the answer as a row of the chosen number 7.

The Secret
When your friend circles a number, you need to multiply the chosen number by 9 in your head - if 3 was chosen you would work out 3 x 9 = 27. Then you need to ask your friend to multiply the 8 digit number by the number you have just worked out. In the case of 3 being chosen you ask your friend to multiply 12345679 by 27 and you magically get the answer 333333333.

THE NAME OF THE CARD IS...

Effect
You secretly predict which card will be chosen. Then you ask a friend to randomly select a number and count down that many cards in the deck. At first this card doesn't match your prediction, but after a few comical adjustments, the name of the card mysteriously appears!

Things you need
A deck of playing cards
A calculator
Paper and pencil

Preparing the trick
Put the 10 of Hearts in the eighteenth position down from the top of the deck.

The Secret
Announce that you are going to predict which card will be chosen from the deck. On a piece of paper, write: THE NAME OF THE CARD IS Fold the paper so that your friend doesn't see what you've written and put it aside until later. Ask your friend to:
1. Enter a 3-digit number into the calculator. (The first digit must be larger than the last digit.) Example: 845
2. Reverse this number and subtract it from the first number. -548 3.

Add the digits in the answer. 297 2+9+7=18 The digits will always add up to 18!
Tell him to count down that many cards in the deck. It will be the 10 of Hearts.
Finally, ask him to open the piece of paper and read your prediction.
He'll read, "THE NAME OF THE CARD IS".

Say that you were in such a hurry that you forgot to finish your prediction. Then make these adjustments and his card will mysteriously appear!
-cross off the H in THE
-cross off the AME in NAME
-cross off the T in THE
-cross off the CD in CARD
-change the I in IS to a T by crossing the top

leaving THE TEN OF HEARTS

The Mysterious Aces

Effect
Three aces will magically appear when the great Mathematical Forces are called.

Things you need
A deck of cards

Preparing the trick
Pick out the aces and any 8. Then count down seven cards and place the 8 with the four aces underneath it. (In other words, the 8 is the eighth card and the aces are 9th, 10th, 11th, and 12th cards down.)

The Secret
Ask a friend for a number between 10 and 20. (Be careful 10 works but 20 does not!) Deal out that number of cards into a pile one at a time. Ask your friend to add the digits of that number. Return that many cards to the top of the deck one card at a time. Turn over the top card and it will be and it will be an ACE. (Very cool!!) Set this Ace aside and put the small pile back on top of the deck. Repeat the trick two more times and get two more aces. Finally, pretend to ask the Lords of Maths for a sign as to where the other ACE is. Pretend that they tell you to turn over the top card. (It will be an 8) Count down that many cards and there will be the final ACE!!! (A quick example...count out 15 cards one at a time... then put six back one at a time...and turn over the top card .... An Ace!!!)

Number Card Magic
Make 5 cards the same as these:

Card A 1 3 5 7 9 11 13 15 17 19 21 23 25 27 29 31
Card B 2 3 6 7 10 11 14 15 18 19 22 23 26 27 30 31
Card C 4 5 6 7 12 13 14 15 20 21 22 23 28 29 30 31
Card D 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31
Card E 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31

Get your friend to choose any number from the cards without telling you the number, but to tell you all the cards it appears on. You should be able to quickly say what number was chosen. How?

Superfast Addition
Get a friend to write down 2 numbers less than 20, one under the other without you seeing them. then your friend makes a third number by adding the first 2 together and write it below the first two. Then make a fourth number by adding the second and third, a fifth by adding the third and fourth, and so on, until there is a column of ten numbers. Now if you look at the numbers you can quickly give the total of the column. .

All you do is multiply the seventh number by 11, in the example below it is 142 x11.

Example 14+9+23+32+55+87+142+229+371+600 =1562

You can multiply by any number by 11 very quickly in your head - How? The secret is to multiply the number by 10 first and then add the number to the first result. For the example above - 10 x 142 = 1420 (the really easy bit - just add 0 to the end), then add 142 to 1420 which gives us the answer 1562 (even that bit's not too difficult either!). More hints on approximation are found here.

Maths Tricks

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Multiply any two numbers from 11 to 20 in your head.

Take 15 x 13 for example..

Place the larger no. first in your mind and then do something like this Take the larger no on the top and the second digit of the smaller no. in the bottom.

15

3

The rest is quite simple. Add 15+3 = 18 . Then multiply 18 x 10 = 180 ...

Now multiply the second digit of both the no.s (ie; 5 x 3 = 15) Now add 180 + 15

Here is the answer 180 + 15 = 195 .

Think over it. This is a simple trick. It will help you a lot.

Multiply any number from 1 to 10 by 9

To multiply by 9,try this:
(1) Spread your two hands out and place them on a desk or table in front of you.
(2) To multiply by 3, fold down the 3rd finger from the left. To multiply by 4, it would be the 4th finger and so on.
(3) the answer is 27 ... READ it from the two fingers on the left of the folded down finger and the 7 fingers on the right of it.

This one was really cool wasn't it

Multiply any two digit number with 11.

This trick is much simpler than the previous one and it is more useful too. Let the number be 27 . Therefore 27 x 11

Divide the number as 2 _ 7

Add 2+ 7 = 9

Thus the answer is 2 9 7

Wasn't this one simple. But there is one complication. If you take a number like 57 Thus _57 x 11

Divide the number as 5 _ 7

Add 5 + 7 = 12

Now add 1 to 5 and place 2 in the middle so the answer is 5+1_2 _7 = _627

Thus the answer is 627

Multiply any number by 11 .

Trick number 2 tells you how to multiply a two digit number by 11 but what if you have a number like 12345678 . Well that is very easy if you our trick as given below . Read it carefully.

Let the number be 12345678 __ thus 12345678 x 11

Write down the number as 012345678 ( Add a 0 in the beginning)

Now starting from the units digit write down the numbers after adding the number to the right

So the answer will be 135802458

This one is simple if you think over it properly all you got to do is to add the number on the right . If you are getting a carry over then add that to the number on the left. So I will tell you how I got the answer . Read carefully.

The number was 12345678 ___ I put a 0 before the number ____ so the new number 012345678

Now I wrote ___ 012345678

Then for the answer

8 + 0 = 8

7 + 8 = 15 (1 gets carry carried over)

6+1+7 = 14 ( 1 gets carried over)

5 + 1 + 6 = 12 ( 1 gets carried over)

4 + 1 + 5 = 10 ( 1 gets carried over)

3 + 1 + 4 = 8

2 + 3 = 5

1 + 2 = 3

0 + 1 = 1

Thus the answer = 135802458

Now I hope you have understood the trick if you want more help please contact me by e-mail using the contact form given below. Please don't fail to mention your e-mail address as it is essential to contact back.

Square any two digit number

Suppose the number is 47 . Look for the nearest multiple of 10 . ie; in this case 50 . We will reach 50 if we add 3 to 47. So multiply (47+3) x (47-3) = 50 x 44 = 2200 This is the 1st interim answer.

We had added 3 to reach the nearest multiple of 10 that is 50 thus 3x 3 = 9 This is the second interim answer.

The final answer is 2200 + 9 = 2209 ... Practice This one on paper first.

Square a 2 Digit Number, for this example 37:

Look for the nearest 10 boundary
In this case up 3 from 37 to 40.
Since you went UP 3 to 40 go DOWN 3 from 37 to 34.
Now mentally multiply 34x40
The way I do it is 34x10=340;
Double it mentally to 680
Double it again mentally to 1360
This 1360 is the FIRST interim answer.
37 is "3" away from the 10 boundary 40.
Square this "3" distance from 10 boundary.
3x3=9 which is the SECOND interim answer.
Add the two interim answers to get the final answer.
Answer: 1360 + 9 = 1369

With practice this can easily be done in your head.

Squaring numbers in the hundreds.

If the number to be squared is 106:
Square the last two digits (no carry): 6 x 6 = 36: _ _ _ 3 6
Add the last two digits (06) to the number: 106 + 6 = 112: 1 1 2 _ _
So 106 x 106 = 11236.
See the pattern?

If the number to be squared is 112:
Square the last two digits (keep carry 1): 12 x 12 = 144: _ _ _ 4 4
Add the last two digits (12) plus the carry (1) to the number:
112 + 12 + 1 = 125: 1 2 5 _ _
So 112 x 112 = 12544.

Squaring a number in the three hundreds

Choose a number in the 300s (practice with numbers under 310, then progress to larger ones).
Square the first digit = : 9 _ _ _ _
The next two digits will be 6 times the last 2 digits: _ X X _ _
The last two places will be the square of the last digit: _ _ _ X X
Example:
If the number to be squared is 309:
The first digit is 9: 9 _ _ _ _
The next two digits are 6 times the last digit:
6 x 9 = 54: _ 5 4 _ _
Square the last digit: 9 x 9 = 81: _ _ _ 8 1
So 309 x 309 = 95481.

For larger numbers reverse the steps:

Square the last two digits (keep the carry): _ _ _ X X
6 times the last two digits + carry: _ X X _ _
Square the first digit + carry: X _ _ _ _

See the pattern?

If the number to be squared is 325:
Square last two digits (keep carry):
25x25 = 625 (keep 6): _ _ _ 2 5
6 times the last two digits + carry:
6x25 = 150; 150+6 = 156 (keep 1): _ 5 6 _ _
Square the first digit + carry:
3x3 = 9; 9+1 = 10: 1 0 _ _ _ _
So 325 x 325 = 105625.

Squaring numbers in the five hundreds

Choose a number in the 500s (start with low numbers at first; then graduate to larger ones).
The first two digits of the square are 25: 2 5 _ _ _ _
The next two digits will be 10 times the last 2 digits: _ _ X X _ _
The last two places will be the square of the last two digits: _ _ _ _ X X
Example:
If the number to be squared is 508:
The first two digits are 25: 2 5 _ _ _ _
The next two digits are 10 times the last 2 digits:
10 x 8 = 80: _ _ 8 0 _ _
Square the last digit: 8 x 8 = 64: _ _ _ 6 4
So 508 x 508 = 258,064.

For larger numbers reverse the steps:

Square the last two digits (keep the carry): _ _ _ _ X X
10 times the last two digits + carry: _ _ X X _ _
25 + carry: X X _ _ _ _

See the pattern?

If the number to be squared is 525:
Square the last two digits (keep the carry):
25 x 25 = 625 (keep 6): _ _ _ _ 2 5
10 times the last two digits + carry:
10 x 25 = 250; 250 + 6 = 256 (keep 2): _ _ 5 6 _ _
25 + carry: 25 + 2 - 27: 2 7 _ _ _ _
So 425 x 425 = 275,625.

Square a two digit number ending in five

This one is as easy as the previous ones but you have to pay a little more attention to this one . Read carefully :

Let the number be 35

35 x 35

Multiply the last digits of both the numbers ; thus ___ 5 x 5 = 25

now add 1 to 3 thus 3 + 1 = 4

multiply 4 x 3 = 12

thus answer 1225

You will have to think over this one carefully.As 5 has to come in the end so the last two digits o the answer will be 25 . Add 1 to the first digit and multiply it by the original first digit . Now this answer forms the digits before the 25. Thus we get an answer .

Squaring a number in the two hundreds.

Choose a number in the 200s (practice with numbers under 210, then progress to larger ones).
Square the first digit = 4: __4 _ _ _ _
The next two digits will be 4 times the last 2 digits: _ X X _ _
The last two places will be the square of the last digit: _ _ _ X X

Example:
If the number to be squared is 206:
The first digit is 4: 4 _ _ _ _
The next two digits are 4 times the last two digits :
4 x 6 = 24: _ 2 4 _ _
Square the last digit: 6 x 6 = 36: _ _ _ 3 6
So 206 x 206 = 42436.

For larger numbers work right to left:

Square the last two digits (keep the carry): _ _ _ X X
4 times the last two digits + carry: _ X X _ _
Square the first digit + carry: X _ _ _ _

See the pattern?

If the number to be squared is 225:
Square last two digits (keep carry):
25x25 = 625 (keep 6): _ _ _ 2 5
4 times the last two digits + carry:
4x25 = 100; 100+6 = 106 (keep 1): _ 0 6 _ _
Square the first digit + carry:
2x2 = 4; 4+1 = 5: 5 _ _ _ _
So 225 x 225 = 50625.

Squaring numbers in the four hundreds

Choose a number in the 400s (keep the numbers low at first; then progress to larger ones).
The first two digits of the square are 16: 1 6 _ _ _ _
The next two digits will be 8 times the last 2 digits: _ _ X X _ _
The last two places will be the square of the last two digits: _ _ _ _ X X
Example:
If the number to be squared is 407:
The first two digits are 16: 1 6 _ _ _ _
The next two digits are 8 times the last 2 digits:
8 x 7 = 56: _ _ 5 6 _ _
Square the last digit: 7 x 7 = 49: _ _ _ 4 9
So 407 x 407 = 165,649.

For larger numbers reverse the steps:

Square the last two digits (keep the carry): _ _ _ _ X X
8 times the last two digits + carry: _ _ X X _ _
16 + carry: X X _ _ _ _

See the pattern?

If the number to be squared is 425:
Square the last two digits (keep the carry):
25 x 25 = 625 (keep 6): _ _ _ _ 2 5
8 times the last two digits + carry:
8 x 25 = 200; 200 + 6 = 206 (keep 2): _ _ 0 6 _ _
16 + carry: 16 + 2 = 18: 1 8 _ _ _ _
So 425 x 425 = 180,625.

Finding 5 percent of any number

Trick 1 : Finding 5 percent of any number
Choose a large number (or sum of money).
Move the decimal point one place to the left.
Divide by 2 (take half of it).

Example:
If the amount of money selected is Rs. 850:
Move the decimal point one place to the left.: 85
Divide by 2: 85/2 = 42.50
So 5% of Rs.850 = Rs.42.50.
See the pattern?

If the amount of money selected is Rs. 4500:
Move the decimal point one place to the left.: 450
Divide by 2: 450/2 = 225
So 5% of Rs.4500 = Rs. 225

Marriage

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Marriage is not a word. It is a sentence--a life sentence.

Marriage is very much like a violin; after the sweet music is over, the strings are attached.

Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore, marriage is an institution for the blind.

Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the woman gets her Masters.

Marriage is a thing which puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes.

Marriage certificate is just another word for a work permit.

Marriage is not just having a wife, but also worries inherited forever.

Marriage requires a man to prepare 4 types of "rings":
* The Engagement Ring
* The Wedding Ring
* The Suffe-Ring
* The Endu-Ring

Quotable Quotes

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1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return,

But what is more painful is to love someone

and never find the courage

to let that person know

how you feel.

**********

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone

who means a lot to you,

only to find out in the end that it was

never meant to be and you just have to let go.

**********

3. The best kind of friend

is the kind you can sit on a porch

swing with, never say a word, and then walk

away feeling like it was the best conversation

you've ever had.

**********

4. It's true that we don't know what

we've got until we lose it, but

it's also true that we don't know what we've

been missing until it arrives.

**********

5. It takes only a minute

to get a crush on someone, an hour to

like someone, and a day to love someone-but it

takes a lifetime to forget that someone.

**********

6. Don't go for looks; they can deceive.

Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile because it

Takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

**********

7. Dream what you want to dream;

Go where you want to go;

Be what you want to be, because you have only

One life and one chance to do all the things you

Want to do.

**********

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If

you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the

person too.

**********

9. A careless word may kindle strife;

A cruel word may wreck a life;

A timely word may level stress;

A loving word may heal and bless.

**********

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have

The best of everything

They just make the most of everything

That comes along their way.

**********

11.When you were born, you were crying and everyone

around you was smiling.

Live your life so that when you die,

you're the one smiling and everyone around you is

crying.

********

I Didn't Get To Say Goodbye

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She's gone without a reason
Why?

I've loved her all of my life
And then she wasn't there.

I didn't get a chance to say
How much I cared.

I can't even remember the tears
That I cried.

All I really wanted was
To tell her Goodbye!!!

When I last saw her I felt I
Wouldn't see her again.

There was a distance between us
That I couldn't explain.

So many words left unspoken
So many hearts left so broken.

My love for her is forever
And that will never die.

We'll be together always.
Our souls are one with God
Eternally and always
Hope
I'll never have to say
Goodbye

Circle of Life

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Zindagi hai to Khwaab Hai
Khwaab Hai To Manzilein Hai
Manzilein Hai To Fasaley Hai
Fasaley Hai To Rastey Hai
Rastay Hai To Mushkilein Hai
Mushkilein Hai To Hausla Hai
Hausla Hai To Vishawas Hai
Vishvas hai to Paisa hai
Paisa hai to Shohrat hai
Shohrat hai to Izzat Hai
Izzat hai to Ladki hai
Ladki hai to Tension hai
Tension hai to Concern hai
Concern hai to a Khayaal hai
Khayaal hai to Khwaab hai
Khawab hai to Growth hai
Growth hai to Zindagi hai
Zindagi hai to khwaab hai
Matlab duniya Gol Gol hai
Bas ghumnewala chahiye

Well Said

2007-05-16T18:52:00.000+05:30

God is real, unless declared integer
Two wrongs don't make a right, but three rights make a left.
Do you have trouble making up your mind? Well, yes or no?
The evening news is where they begin with 'Good evening', and then proceed to tell you why it isn't.
Before borrowing money from a friend, decide which you need more.
Death is hereditary.
There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side.
An expert is someone who takes a subject you understand and makes it sound confusing.
Many things can be preserved in alcohol. Dignity is not one of them.
Never argue with a fool. People might not know the difference.
When you're right, no one remembers. When you're wrong, no one forgets.
Cheer up, the worst is yet to come.
Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.
Experience is what a comb gives you after you lose your hair.
Well done is better than well said.
Everyone makes mistakes. The trick is to make them when nobody is looking.
They say hard work never hurts anybody, but why take the chance.
Always borrow money from a pessimist. He won't expect it back.
I like work. It fascinates me. I can sit and look at it for hours.
If you can't see the bright side of life, polish the dull side.
Where there's a will, there are five hundred relatives.
I have a drinking problem - I can't afford it.
Good girls go to heaven. Bad girls go anywhere!
Love thy neighbour, but be sure her husband is away.
Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.
Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm.
Drink 'til she's cute, but stop before the wedding.
I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met.
I intend to live forever - so far, so good.
If Barbie is so popular, why do you have to buy her friends?
When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.
Ambition is a poor excuse for not having enough sense to be lazy.
If I worked as much as others, I would do as little as they.
If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.
Many people quit looking for work when they find a job.
When I'm not in my right mind, my left mind gets pretty crowded.
Everyone has a photographic memory. Some don't have film.
Boycott SHAMpoo! Demand the REALpoo!
What happens if you get scared half to death twice?
I poured Spot remover on my dog. Now he's gone.
I used to have an open mind but my brains kept falling out.
I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder.
For Sale: Parachute. Only used once, never opened, small stain.
OK, so what's the speed of dark?
Skill is successfully walking a tightrope over Niagara Falls. Intelligence is not trying.
Join The Army, Visit exotic places, meet strange & interesting people, then kill them.
WARNING: consumption of alcohol may lead you to think people are laughing WITH you.

Difference between Love & Like

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“Do u know what’s the difference between Love & Like?
Maybe u can get the answer from the following sentences.
But, I think some of them are NOT ALWAYS true for everyone!!
Hope they can help u to distinguish between the ambiguous feelings
between Love and Like”

Love & Like

Differences between Love and Like……

In front of the person u love, your heart beats faster,
But in front of the person you like, you get happy.

In front of the person u love, winter seems like spring,
But in front of the person u like, winter is just a beautiful winter.

If u look into the eyes of the one u love, u blush,
But if u look into the eyes of the one u like, u smile.

In front of the person u love, u can’t say everything in your mind,
But in front of the person u like, u can.

In front of the person u love, u tend to get shy,
But in front of the person u like, u can show your own self.

The person u love, comes into your mind every 2 minutes.
You can’t look straight into the eyes of the one u love,
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one u like.

When the one u love is crying, u cry with them,
But when the one u like is crying, u end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye,
The feeling of like starts from the ear.

So, if u stop liking a person u used to like,
All u need to do is cover your ears,
But…if u try to close your eyes,
Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever thereafter…

If You Love Someone . . .

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If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...then it's not love..it's - Infatuation . . .

If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him/her because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love..it's - compromise . . .

If you love some one because you think that you cannot live without his/her touch ....then it's not love ..it's - lust . . .

If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...then it's not love..it's - inferiority complex . . .

If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..then it's not love ..it's - charity . . .

If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...then it's not love..it's - friendship . . .

But if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stableand you cry for him ..that's - LOVE . . .

Definition Of An Engineer

2007-05-14T16:13:00.000+05:30

ENGINEER WOH HAI JO PAK GAYA HAI
DEGREE KI PADHAI ME
SUBMISSIONS KI GEHRAI ME
TEAMWORK KI CHATTIE ME

ENGINEER WOH HAI JO PHAS GAYA HAI
CAMPUS INTERVIEWS KE MAAL ME
S/W TESTING COMPANIES KI CHAAL ME
INTERNALS AUR EXTERNALS KI MAAR ME

ENGINEER WOH HAI
JO LUNCH TIME ME BREAKFAST KARTA HAI
DINNER TIME ME LUNCH KARTA HAI
3 AM ASSIGNMENT KARTE-KARTE JUICE PEETA HAI

ENGINEER WAHI HAI JO SEMISTER KE STARTING ME
MAZE KARTA HAI
EXAMS ME HI PADHAI KARTA HAI
SUBMISSIONS HAMESHA DEADLINES KE BAAD KARTA HAI
EXAMS KE EK DIN PEHLE BHI ORKUT PE ONLINE MILTA HAI...........

Khoobsurat Kaun Hai ?

2007-05-12T19:05:00.000+05:30

Khoobsurat hain woh lub
Jo pyari batein kartey hain

Khoobsurat hai woh muskurahat
Jo doosron ke chehron per bhi muskan saja de

Khoobsurat hai woh dil
Jo kisi ke dard ko samjhey
Jo kisi ke dard mein tadpey

Khoobsurat hain woh jazbat
Jo kisi ka ehsaas karein

Khoobsurat hain woh ehsaas
Jo kisi ke dard ke me dawa baney

Khoobsurat hain woh batein
Jo kisi ka dil na dukhaein

Khoobsurat hain woh ankhein
Jin mein pakezgi ho sharm o haya ho

Khoobsurat hain woh ansoo
Jo kisi ke dard ko mehsoos kerke beh jae

Khoobsurat hain woh Hath
Jo kisi ko mushkil waqat mein tham lein

Khoobsurat hain woh kadam
Jo kisi ki madad ke liye aagey badhein !!!!!

Khoobsurat hai woh soch
Jo kisi ke liye acha sochey

Khoobsurat hai woh insan
Jise KHUDA ne ye KHOOBSURATI ada ki hai.

Think before you.........

2007-05-12T19:01:00.000+05:30

Today before you think of saying an unkind word
Think of someone who can't speak

Before you complain about the taste of your food
Think of someone who has nothing to eat

Before you complain about your husband or wife
Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion

Today before you complain about life
Think of someone who went too early to heaven

Before you complain about your children
Think of someone who desires children but they're barren

Before you argue about your dirty house; someone didn't clean or sweep
Think of the people who are living in the streets

Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet

And when you are tired and complain about your job
Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another
Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down
Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around

Life is a gift
Live it...
Enjoy it...
Celebrate it...
And fulfill it.
And while you are at it give love to someone today
Love someone with what you do and the words you say
Love is not meant to be kept locked inside of us and hidden
So give it away "Give Love to someone today!"

Sacrifice by the Sikh Gurus for the sake of a Religion known as Humanity

2007-05-12T16:57:00.000+05:30

When after Shahjahan fundamentalist Aurangzeb occupied the throne of Delhi he tore to shreds the well debated and so called secular policies of his predecessor Mughal rulers. He, while rejecting all the double-edged policies of the Mughal emperors, took his sword out of the shield to implement God's dictate for converting India into an Islamic state. The entire country was shocked and shudered because of his atrocities. First of all he made Hindu scholars and the Pandit community as his target. He believed that it is because of their preaching and teaching that the entire population of India had not become Muslims despite continuous pressure for many years. He thought that it was necessary to eliminate the Brahmin community for the elimination of that society.
Kashmiri Pandits approach Guru Teg Bahadur Ji for help:
After getting frustrated by the inhuman cruelties committed by Aurangzeb, Kashmiri Pandits decided to approach the great nationalist, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur, at Anandpur Sahib in Punjab for help, about 500 Pandits, under the leadership of Pandit Kripa Ram, met the Guru.
Shri Guru Teg Bahadur became engrossed in deep thought after listening to the story of the Pandits. His face lit bright like the Sun. The Kshatriya in Him awakened for the protection of religion and nation. His son, Gobind Rai(Shri Guru Gobind Singh Ji), enquired from him the reason of his trance.

The Guru told his inquisitive son that there is need for the sacrifice of a greatman for protecting the Hindu society from the misfortune. The son of the Guru, who was dedicated to the nation and religion, had the same blood in his veins.
He said instantly "Who else is more great than you ?"

With these words of his son, Gobind, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur decided to sacrifice himself for the protection of the sacred thread and vermillion (Tilak). This decision was of national importance, because it changed the course of future history.
Shri Guru Teg Bahadur sent a message to Aurangzeb that if he could convert Teg Bahadur to Islam, every Hindu will become a Muslim.There was a discussion between Aurangzeb and the Guru. The Guru roared like a lion and told the king that he could not change his religion. Forcing anyone to change religion was against humanity. The Mughal ruler is irreligious by following an irreligious path. Honouring his dictates and orders is a deep dishonour for the entire country of India and for the vast Hindu society. He told him that he opposed, strongly, clearly and with determination these evil deeds.Aurangzeb felt losing ground under his feet on seeing the courage and strong religious faith of Guru Teg Bahadur.

Aurangzeb flared up and gave two options to the Guru - either death or adoption of Islam.

Great love for Hindu religion:
The Guru opted for the option of death for sacrificing his life for the protection of nation and religion. And for this very purpose he had come from Anandpur Sahib to Delhi.
Teg Bahadur said:

"We belong to Hindu religion. How can we give up our highly dear Hindu religion ? This Hindu religion is a source of happiness in this and the other world. No other religion seems to be equal to Hindu religion. Those having mean and unwise bent of mind and give up this religion are wicked and base. Such people suffer greatly in this world and even Yamraj (God of Death) does not get satisfied while punishing them. We are wise and learned. Why should we forsake Hindu religion ? We have a permanent commitment and love for protecting our religion".

This gave birth to a period of cruelty on Guru Teg Bahadur and his colleagues. Tieing to a hot pillar, throwing hot sand on their bodies, wounding their bodies and other intolerable pains became a routine. And whenever anyone was not made unstable, orders were issued to kill them mercilessly.
As per the Fatwah (decree) of the royal Qazi the Gurus first associate, Bhai Dayal, was thrown in a boiling pot and killed.The second associate Bhai Sati Das, was packed in a bale of cotton which was set ablaze and the third one, Bhai Mati Das, was sawed to death.
After the immortal sacrifice of these three persons, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur was beheaded at the Chandni Chowk in Delhi.Thus Guruji sacrificed his life for the protection of Hindu religion. Can anybody lay down his life and that too for the protection of another religion? This is the reason he is still remembered as "Hind Di Chaddar", shield of India. For the sake of whom he had sacrificed his life, none of the them came forward to lift his body, fearing that they would also be assassinated.

Ideas To Be Successful

2007-04-04T23:19:00.000+05:30

Set specific goals and action steps, and write them down. The single most important step in getting somewhere is knowing where you're going and having a plan for getting there. Your goals have to be written out, and so does your plan. Be specific, date each goal and each step on your action plan. Then follow it.

Read and review your goals daily. This one could change your life. Keep your goals in front of you. Always know what you plan to do next. And always take the action your plan calls for. Review your goals, review your plan, change them as necessary, and stay with it. It only takes two or three minutes each morning to read your goals and glance over your plans. You're going to spend the next 24 hours that day doing something; you might as well be doing something that counts.

Set daily priorities. Your goals and action plan will tell you what to do. Next, put your priorities in order. If you make a list, keep it short.

Change your old programs by learning new Self-Talk. Get rid of any old mental programs that could be holding you back. Listen to Self-Talk, practice it, and get it right. Your programs will determine whether you reach your goal or not.

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Turn off the television. The less television you watch, the more successful you will be. Most television wastes your time, while it programs your mind with the wrong input to be successful. Do your future and your family a favour. As much as you can, break the habit, spend your time doing something of value, and turn the television OFF.

Practice, every day, keeping a positive attitude. Your attitude actually affects the biochemistry of your brain. A bad attitude turns your success switches "off." A good attitude turns them "on." Never listen to the negative opinions of others, and make the choice to eliminate negativity from your life--completely. A good attitude is not an accident; it is a habit and a skill that you have to build for yourself. Practice going through life with your success switches being turned "on."

Associate with people who are more successful than you are. We become most like the people we spend our time with most. Seek out the successful people; people of quality, honour, integrity, and achievement. Spend time with them in person. Listen to them on tape. Or read their stories in books. We get the most from the people who have the most to give.

Live your life based on "values." Your values are the pages on which the story of your life will be written. Practice the values of honesty, integrity, trust, determination, compassion, patience, personal responsibility, the willingness to work, and the courage to endure. All lasting success is built on positive values.

Practice your faith. In the lives of people who are truly successful in every way, you will always find a foundation of faith. If you want to live your life at your best, practice your faith. Not just an hour a week, but every day.

Make the choice to believe in yourself and in your future. Believing in yourself is a choice. The people who are the most successful learn to tell themselves they can do it. Practice believing in yourself. Practice telling yourself you can do it; no matter how difficult, no matter what it takes. You've got what it takes. You can do it! You are capable of more than you have ever imagined! Now tell yourself that.

Do at least two things each day to improve yourself. This is one of the top ideas on every achiever's list of how to be successful. If you want to get more successful, you have to learn more. Each day, think of two simple things you can do to improve yourself that day. Set some goals about this one. Take small steps. Read something. Listen to something new. Learn something. If you want your life to get better, you have to start by improving yourself, first.

Never quit. Never Stop. Never give up! If you want to be successful at anything, be determined, persevere, stay with it, refuse to give in, don't hesitate, don't hold back, and don't quit until the job is done. If it hasn't worked yet, try harder. If you haven't reached your goal, focus your sights, visualize the outcome, recommit to making it, start again, take action, stay with it, and never, ever, give up!

Modified Laws of Newton

2007-03-29T16:40:00.000+05:30

1st:
A boy in love with a girl,will continue to be in a state of uniform love or constant dating unless an external force (brother or father of the gal) comes into play and
breaks the legs of the boy.

2nd:
The rate of change of intensity of love of a girl towards a boy is
directly proportional to the instantaneous bank balance of the boy and
the direction of this love is same to as increment or decrement of the
bank balance.

3rd:
The force applied while proposing a girl by a boy is equal and opposite
to the force applied by the girl while using her sandals to bash him up.....

[Not yet gone through research work]