January 31, 2009

Some good lines

You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone
who will never be able to repay you.


The best portion of a good man's life - his little,
nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.


Too often we underestimate the power of a touch,
a smile, a kind word, a listening ear,
an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring,
all of which have the potential to turn a life around.


The true meaning of life is to plant trees,
under whose shade you do not expect to sit.


I expect to pass through life but once.
If therefore, there be any kindness I can show,
or any good thing I can do to any fellow being,
let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it,
as I shall not pass this way again.

The best things in life are nearest:
Breath in your nostrils,
Light in your eyes,
Flowers at your feet,
Duties at your hand.

Then do not grasp at the stars,
but do life's plain, common work as it comes.


A good character is the best tombstone.
Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered.


Life is mostly froth and bubble,
Two things stand like stone,
Kindness in another's trouble,
Courage in your own.


How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young,
compassionate with the aged,
sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong.
Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.


You cannot do a kindness too soon,
for you never know how soon it will be too late.

Carve your name on hearts, not on marble.

January 8, 2009

PATIENCE, it Helps or it Kills......?



Lets try to figure out something about the term PATIENCE today. Its my favourite piece of advice to any kind of a problem for anyone, I have joined a community 'Prayer and Patience are my weapons' on orkut, I fully believe in the concept as well but what so happened now, that I have chosen this very topic for my post over here?

Advices are always for others, very easy to suggest yet extremely difficult to be worked upon. We never hesitate in providing free suggestions but what if we ourselves have to carry on the same? I suggest people not to waste time, not to lose opportunities, to listen to the heart and not the mind, to forget about the rest, to avoid situations where you dont have to say 'Kaash !' in the end and what not.

But what happens to me when all these things apply on myself? Kehta to main bahut kuch hu, par aksar bhul jaata hu, ke hun to mai bhi ek insaan hi. On such occasions, I feel totally lonely as there seems no one to share my feelings with except my dear blog, then I realise that it might be none other than my patience which is responsible for my lonliness, what am I waiting for?

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I remember a song(video) by Amrinder Gill, "Tere darshan bade zaruri", in which the person waits and waits and waits for I dont know what but finally he is seen watching his love sitting behind on a bike with her husband and at that very time he is advised by an old man who used to observe him daily
"Bolna painda e kaka, bolna painda e".

Us bande ko ye gyan tab jakar mila but main to iske bare mein abhi likh raha hu par implement kab karunga?

Yet another recent song to be mentioned, "Haule Haule", from 'Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi' where SRK is seen playing a simple person like me who is so desperate to express his love but is trying to talk to and convince himself to be patient.

These are just modes of entertainment, the songs and movies, but what to do in real life scenario. What is the purpose of such songs, can we draw out any moral out of these and then can we implement those in our lives? Obviously, we can but what about the success rate? How can we analyse that before implementing? We cannot.

So, my dear readers, please learn something out of this and let me also know whether something worked out or not. Till that time, I shall be using my other weapon, PRAYER, in order to have my goal achieved.

***
Bada ho gaya yar, chaddo duniya daari,
Ye saale duniya wale to hote hi ghatiya hain, Khud to kisi layak hote nahin, Doosre ko kuch karne nahin dete!!! Inka to kuch hota nahin, Agar koi inki wajah se, bewakuf bankar, step back karle, To usi ko apna success maan ke baith jaate hain!!
"Bhaad me jao saalon from now onwards"
***


January 7, 2009

LOVE...........???

I was asked about what is love quite a long time back, around 5-6 months ago by a very close friend. I even answered but probably I feel I can answer it in a better way now.


Love Will Get You Through Times Of No Money Better
Than Money Gets You Through Times Of No Love.

The spaces between our fingers were created so that another person's fingers can fill them up.

When you love someone, draw a CIRCLE around your names instead of a heart because hearts can be broken while circles never end.

You will know when you really love someone when you want her to be happy even if her happiness means that you're not a part of it.

If I were to describe love, I would compare it with what one snowman did to another snowwoman - he gave her a warm embrace and they melted in each other's arms.

If I had the letters "HRT", I can add "EA" to get a HEART or a "U" and get HURT, but I'd rather choose "U" and get HURT than have a HEART without "U".

You never lose in loving. You lose in holding back.

Dream what u want to dream
Go where u want to go
Be what u want to be
Because u have only one life & one chance to do all


When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared
they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because
not only do they still love you, they love you even more.
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When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You know that your name is safe in their mouth.

Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your food,
without making them give you any of theirs.

Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.

Love is when your mommy makes coffee for your daddy and she takes a sip
before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it
everyday.

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him
alone all day.

I know my elder brother loves me because he gives me all his old
clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.

When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little
stars come out of you.

Love is a bird,
It needs to fly
Love makes you scream,
It makes you sigh,
Love is a wave,
Waiting to crash on the shores
Love is like the season's first rain
Ready to pour
Love is the moist flower
Covered with morning dew
Love is a tonic
To cure your soul
Love is a book,
Don’t judge it by the cover, you need to go through to feel its power
Love is like a rose,
Blooming from the bud
Love is a gamble,
Where even a loss means something
Love is a mystery
No one can solve it better than the LUCKY TWO!!

***
You really shouldn't say '
I love you' unless you really mean it.
But if you do mean it, don't be shy to say it aloud.
***



January 4, 2009

I can't bear this Pain Anymore..........


It can be disregarded once in a while, but the pain that you provide me everytime is getting unbearable now.

I lost my everything for your sake, my friends, my position, my heart, everything that was coming in between you and me but now when I seem to loose you, I am actually left with nothing.

Even tried extremely hard to forget our past, but I could not.
Its not even that you don't know but then why do you do so?
I don't ask for anything else but just a nice friend to talk to, to listen to, to walk along, to share my feelings with but each time I don't see this happening, I just get broken up completely.

I am just looking for a single person jiske saath formalty na karni pade balki dil khud hi majbur kar de saath chalne ko.
And I even expect the same from the other side as well. I just want you to be with me and only me when you are with me, completely.

Don't take me wrongly but I feel I have started taking you more seriously now, even expecting more from your side.

Don't know the reason but its definitely true. Tried to hold as much as I could but its out of my bounds now.